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Default Apr 19, 2019 at 04:31 PM
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this morning my wife making statements about me that are not true....
not only not true but make me look hurtful...I finally said NO COMMENT...
it was headed for a fight....I did not want to go there....I feel good
that I stopped the talk....I did good...she tends to be very critical...
I stood up for myself....the cowardly lion...
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Stopping conversations that serve no good purpose is a useful skill!

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I have been reading and listening to a psychiatrist IRVIN YALOM..
I am liking what he has to say about death and isolation and freedom and meaningless....
he calls it existential psychotherapy...I just ordered his book---STARING AT THE SUN...
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I have been reading and listening to a psychiatrist IRVIN YALOM..
I am liking what he has to say about death and isolation and freedom and meaningless....
he calls it existential psychotherapy...I just ordered his book---STARING AT THE SUN...
I’ve read a couple of books by Irvin Yalom

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Much love and gentle hugs to all on the as is bus

Confessions of little turtle with love #3

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I’ve read a couple of books by Irvin Yalom

fuzzy what do you think about his ideas...
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fuzzy what do you think about his ideas...
I liked what he had to say in “loves executioner” but I read it a long time ago..
Some of it is “controversial”
Many things are controversial these days..
Compared to therapists I’ve consulted he was much kinder..
Since he kept any negativity to himself and to his own reflections and didn’t dump it on the client..
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to little turtle and all on the bus, thank you for being here, much love from me

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We need to understand one thing.

We are not dead, that we still can do great things.

But we are not fully capable either, that we can never do the greatest things.

I think finding balance in our way of thinking will adjust everything in our life.
 
 
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to little turtle and all on the bus, thank you for being here, much love from me

fuzzy we can share our suffering and good times
on the bus...sometimes it helps to just say it
the way it is....what is true...and we have some
valium...and I have some wine...
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fuzzy we can share our suffering and good times
on the bus...sometimes it helps to just say it
the way it is....what is true...and we have some
valium...and I have some wine...
Thank you little turtle for being true and kind
I have some wine..
My supplies of Valium are running out..
I’m punished when I speak my truth...
If I wasn’t so stupid I would be a “success”
And loved by all....
Others are allowed to speak their truth and even praised for it..
But my truth makes me a “lesser” person..
Why? Because I’m hated by the family .....
I wish they hadn’t ever bothered to reproduce
They didn’t want me. They wanted a toy to abuse and shut away in a cupboard
While pretending to be nice and kind people

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Thank you little turtle for being true and kind
I have some wine..
My supplies of Valium are running out..
I’m punished when I speak my truth...
If I wasn’t so stupid I would be a “success”
And loved by all....
Others are allowed to speak their truth and even praised for it..
But my truth makes me a “lesser” person..
Why? Because I’m hated by the family .....
I wish they hadn’t ever bothered to reproduce
They didn’t want me. They wanted a toy to abuse and shut away in a cupboard
While pretending to be nice and kind people
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I am reading about the prefrontal cortex and
how to protect it....I want to be able to choose wisely...
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A doctor told me I’m “the worried well”

And gave me no help,

I don’t hate doctors. They are all superior to me...

I’m inferior and “weak”

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“Choosing” implies we have some worth...

Some of us have been told repeatedly by experts we have No Worth

We are dead to those experts

I don’t want this life

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Thank you little turtle and all on the as is bus for graciously allowing all here to speak our truth, as is. If anything can offer hope and healing, it’s that. As is.

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