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Default Oct 04, 2019 at 08:15 AM
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My anger exists though deeply buried.
I fear confronting it.

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My anger exists though deeply buried.
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me also.........probably about my mother...
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this morning on the AS IS bus...
i hate walking down the road...
i have a lot of anger inside of me..
about a lot of things...i don't want to take it out on me...
fuzzy knows this...TS knows this ....rohag knows this...desiree knows...
i am finding out about the anger inside of me...
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Yes unresolved anger and frustration too...

Without a healthy release it stays deep inside... It kept me awake most of the night

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this morning on the AS IS bus...
i hate walking down the road...
i have a lot of anger inside of me..
about a lot of things...i don't want to take it out on me...
fuzzy knows this...TS knows this ....rohag knows this...desiree knows...
i am finding out about the anger inside of me...
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Yes unresolved anger and frustration too...

Without a healthy release it stays deep inside... It kept me awake most of the night

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Much love, respect and hugs to you dear Thirty shades. Thank you for being here on the AS IS bus

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i have a mental illness....
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Confessions of little turtle with love #3

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i have a mental illness....
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I can't feel loved...

I know in my head there are people who love me...
I have been trying hard to love myself....

But I still feel completely desolate and unloved...
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I can't feel loved...

I know in my head there are people who love me...
I have been trying hard to love myself....

But I still feel completely desolate and unloved...
TS---i have been thinking about this....and the AS IS bus...
i see a problem....maybe....the time for us to be kind to ourselves....
when we feel alone and unloved by others...

we may be expecting too much from others...
but it is possibly under our control to accept us exactly where we are...
it doesn't mean we can't improve our situation...
but i think it is crucial to be patient and kind with ourselves...

no matter what.....
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TS---i have been thinking about this....and the AS IS bus...
i see a problem....maybe....the time for us to be kind to ourselves....
when we feel alone and unloved by others...

we may be expecting too much from others...
but it is possibly under our control to accept us exactly where we are...
it doesn't mean we can't improve our situation...
but i think it is crucial to be patient and kind with ourselves...

no matter what.....
little turtle and all on the AS IS bus

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TS---i have been thinking about this....and the AS IS bus...
i see a problem....maybe....the time for us to be kind to ourselves....
when we feel alone and unloved by others...

we may be expecting too much from others...
but it is possibly under our control to accept us exactly where we are...
it doesn't mean we can't improve our situation...
but i think it is crucial to be patient and kind with ourselves...

no matter what.....


Thank you for taking the time to think about my post and reply Little Turtle.

I know others love me and support me.
I know I offer myself nice actions to show self love.

My problem is I can't feel it. I think you are right, my thoughts are at fault. I will try to be patient and kind and accept myself, AS IS.

I feel very ungrateful for living while others lose their battle to illness....

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TS ---i should keep my mouth shut....sorry
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I liked the post you made, at least for my own situation little turtle. I feel like being good to myself is hard but I try anyways. I feel like every time I put my needs above someone elses I'm feeling a little less love from anyone. It's also as if I'm guilty, but at the same time it is something I have to do or I'll lose hope in everything.

I'm losing hope that I can live in my situation, and then I don't know where to go from here. I wanted to talk so I hope it's ok here.

I think you've helped with your posts and you are very hard on yourself to say you should keep your mouth shut. I have a hard time doing that very thing. I live with someone and my mouth won't be quiet. I'm hurt by this persons actions and words, and it would do me good to leave but I don't know how to make myself do that. It's finances, it's where to go where I'd feel is home. It's like there's no where that would feel like home to me. It's like this, where I live now, is my home yet I'm being told I'm not wanted and even worse.

I feel like a broken record, I know what people's opinions are and they conflict with each other. I know what my thoughts are and they constantly conflict with each other.

I'm not looking for advice anymore but I'm just confused. I do know I need to be kinder to myself and take care of myself.... So I wanted to say that reading these last few posts were helpful, and I wish you a good day little turtle. We are all ok as is, and we can all make some changes to help with the depression and loneliness. I hope you know you are accepted and cared for. It is hard to know what to say all the time, but I think we all do the best we can. HUGS
 
 
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dear 2 daffodils------you are on the bus...say whatever you want....thanks for your words...
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TS ---i should keep my mouth shut....sorry
I was grateful for your response Little Turtle.

Your thoughts are always valid and welcomed.

I feel you are right that when I have feelings that are negative, I tend to reject myself. I am not patient and kind to me as I would be to a friend in that same situation. Your post reminded me and helped. Thank you for being here and offering your thoughts.

Thank you for reminding me to accept myself AS IS.
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