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Default Apr 11, 2019 at 10:00 AM
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Other women hate me. They call me names like loser. With a very few exceptions. With only two exceptions all my acquaintances who are kind are men. I’m not interested in girly things. And why are so many women so cruel to me. I don’t do anything to hurt them. I don’t say mean things to them. I don’t gossip. I don’t spread rumors. They don’t even try to get to know me. This isn’t about anyone here.
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I can only say one thing - Don't waste energy on thinking what people think about you. Never stop improving yourself and don't beat yourself over your mistakes or other's perception of your alleged mistakes.
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I'm so sorry you're hurting so much, mountainstream! I completely agree with what TheLonelyChemist has already wisely said better than I ever could! I'd suggest to listen to him as much as you can if you want to! He always gives such great advice and lots of great advice to everyone! Try not to think too much about what other people may think of you! Unfortunate there are too many judgemental, mean people on this Earth! We must try not to let them hurt us too much, otherwise we'll go crazy because of all of these people! Try to not let them win! You're a beautiful, wonderful person just the way you are! PLEASE REMEMBER THAT! I'm really happy that you have at least a few acquiantances IRL that are being SO kind to you! I'm sure you'll be able to meet some women that will be kind to you as well! Please don't give up hope! Try to hang on as much as you can! You're doing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG! You're perfectly fine the way you are right now! I hope things will get better soon for you one way or another! You're a STRONG, WONDERFUL PERSON! You're BEAUTIFUL, UNIQUE and WONDERFUL just THE WAY YOU ARE! PLEASE REMEMBER THAT! I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this, mountainstream!
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Other women hate me. They call me names like loser. With a very few exceptions. With only two exceptions all my acquaintances who are kind are men. I’m not interested in girly things. And why are so many women so cruel to me. I don’t do anything to hurt them. I don’t say mean things to them. I don’t gossip. I don’t spread rumors. They don’t even try to get to know me. This isn’t about anyone here.
It is perhaps because we are kind enough not to be cruel and gossip that we don't fit in.....

I agree men make better company amongst normal people.....
They also have a better sense of humour....

I am not sure why women don't want to know us though......

I am pleased to know you and would be sad if you stopped posting....
It is nice to have quality friends over quantity too....
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I also think it’s maybe because we are kind enough not to be cruel and gossip that we don’t fit in.

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You don't deserve to be treated like that . they are bullies . I'm so sorry you experience that kind of behavior
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