People confuse me

I might have posted about this, or part of this in another part of pc. I’m not sure. I’m still confused and would welcome any feedback.

I spent quite a bit of time quite recently on another support forum which I also like in some ways, but not as much as I like pc. I also find the people on pc friendlier

I was in a bad place emotionally when I joined the other forum and didn’t second guess everything I posted. I took It at face value, a support forum.

I can’t remember now what I said in my post. I don’t find writing introductions easy and I’m also a private person.... the paternal unit drummed that into me in many ways which I won’t go into.... and I was also extremely confused by the parental units.. any child or even young person would also have been...

I do have a lot of empathy in general for others. I usually don’t take a dislike to someone for small reasons. I think of these as “good” qualities. I guess some might disagree. But I stand firm that these are good qualities.

Anyway, someone who had been there for ? A couple of years basically said he thinks I must be a bad person as I didn’t post saying what a useless, awful etc person I was.

Any thoughts on this? I didn’t make many posts there and they did not know me.

Don't think about that particular person. He must be a bad person or a troll.

Thanks Chem

That person must not know the real Fuzzy bear. He isn't being kind and it seems like he's trolling you .

Thanks Calla lily12

The internet is a great source of support
Where like minded people can meet
I am afraid there are some of those people from IRL
That also invade our safe space

Troll's are bullies and cowards......

I too have a hard time separating myself from untrue and nasty comments people make....

Fuzzybear

fuzzy is there something going on in real life...
not on a forum...that is causing you trouble..
sounds like you are really hurting...hugs

I'm so sorry you're hurting so much, Fuzzybear! I agree with what all the other wise, wonderful posters have already wisely said better than I ever could! He was probably a troll or simply a mean, nasty person! Unfortunately people like this exist both IRL and on the Internet. We must try not to pay too much attention to them! They only want to hurt us! We must NOT let them win! I understand why you'd feel hurt by this kind of comments though! Please remember that it is NOT true and you are a truly strong, wonderful person who is trying to do his best to survive! That's all we humans can do and it's ALWAYS more than ENOUGH! We all care about you here! We all love you here! Feel free to vent and write here as much as you need and want! You know we won't judge you! I promise you that I won't jduge you! PLEASE REMEMBER THAT! Please don't give up hope! Try to hang on as much as you can! I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this, Fuzzybear