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Heart Apr 12, 2019 at 03:49 PM
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I thought of putting a trigger icon on this post as I’m aware at this particular moment on this particular day that not everyone enjoys my posts. That is ok, I don’t have time to read all the posts on pc even if I wanted to.

On another website someone said that to my face recently (a few weeks ago) (that they don’t like me or my posts) and that is absolutely fine -NO sarcasm there

Maybe this could change maybe not ... I have no wish to control others

One member who has only posted a few times put me on ignore because I posted a hug to his thread. Nobody can please everybody all the time. I do not wish to try to do that. I’m working on myself. Real life comes first. And my true friends (I’m also open to making new friends but my time is limited sometimes)

I want to reside in Love as I have always tried to do.

To me that does not mean no anger is allowed

To me anger does not equal “hate”

I wish I had had so many words to tell it with therapists irl but I found they silenced me and I was being me as they had told me to be ..no censor

That is all. I have to fight the snake inside me who wants me to delete myself from this planet.

In order to fight the snake I reside in love.

I can’t second guess everything I say to papa bear, to any therapist or counsellor or to any relative, acquaintance or to my friends in private, or any social media. Personally that might drive me “insane”

I did find that a therapist irl literally jumped on me for my words after more than 4 years..., I did not say mean things, I did not make any threats of any sort. I think he may have had some unresolved control issues

He was frustrated because he wanted me to become less avoidant

Basically we weren’t a good fit

But the therapy ended on amicable terms

I reside in love for papa bear and for my friends and for my

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I am a wise bear and I can’t and don’t wish to be friends with every single member on pc any more than I would be friends with every single person on any other website or at any work place or place of study

I suggest, as I myself try to follow this advice on different social media’s

If I find I don’t enjoy or benefit from some people’s posts or advice I limit my reading of said posts and advice. In some cases I might use ignore temporarily ... this is usually rare. As long term wise members have said on multiple occasions ignore is not a punishment ..... Only recently I have taken a break from another website

I do not believe in putting all my eggs in one basket

I wish everyone peace

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Thank you so much for making this thread, Fuzzybear! Wiser words have never been spoken! You're a STRONG, WONDERFUL BEAR and we ALL know that! Keep trying to do your best! That's all we humans and bears can do after all and it's ALWAYS more than enough! There are plenty of people who like you here so please don't worry about that at all! You'll ALWAYS find support here! I promise you that! Just be kind to yourself, ok, my sweet friend? You ARE a wise bear and we ALL KNOW THAT! Please be kind to yourself as much as you can and take GREAT care of yourself, ok, my sweet friend? We all care about you! We all love you! Feel free to vent and write here as much as you need to and want to! You know we won't judge you! I promise you that I won't judge you! You ARE loved because YOU'RE AWESOME, YOU ROCK and YOU KNOW IT! We ALL know that! I'm sure you know that as well even if it's deep down! PLEASE REMEMBER THAT! Sending many hugs to you, Fuzzybear!
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Thank you so much for making this thread, Fuzzybear! Wiser words have never been spoken! You're a STRONG, WONDERFUL BEAR and we ALL know that! Keep trying to do your best! That's all we humans and bears can do after all and it's ALWAYS more than enough! There are plenty of people who like you here so please don't worry about that at all! You'll ALWAYS find support here! I promise you that! Just be kind to yourself, ok, my sweet friend? You ARE a wise bear and we ALL KNOW THAT! Please be kind to yourself as much as you can and take GREAT care of yourself, ok, my sweet friend? We all care about you! We all love you! Feel free to vent and write here as much as you need to and want to! You know we won't judge you! I promise you that I won't judge you! You ARE loved because YOU'RE AWESOME, YOU ROCK and YOU KNOW IT! We ALL know that! I'm sure you know that as well even if it's deep down! PLEASE REMEMBER THAT! Sending many hugs to you, Fuzzybear!
Thank you MickeyCheeky

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Default Apr 13, 2019 at 03:49 AM
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((((((Fuzzybear))))))

You are a loving bear and full of caring habits
PC would not be the same without you

Much love to you, your inner cub and snake
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You are a wonderful, strong, caring bear .

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