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Wisest Elder Ever
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#1
I, apparently, am worthless
I don’t deserve help.. My triggers and my pain are “ridiculous” - someone irl told me this __________________ |
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#2
Don't listen to them. You are not worthless and you are entitled to your pain and triggers. They are trying to push their truth on you and tell you what your's should be and that's just wrong of them.
__________________ I think I need help 'cause I'm drowning in myself. It's sinking in, I can't pretend that I ain't been through hell. I think I need help---Papa Roach |
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Grand Magnate
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#3
The ego of people IRL,,, Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
They love to put others down, so they can feel better about themselves. You, dear friend are not worthless.. People like this make us feel worthless That is true But we are amazing in our own right We cope with so much more And make it through the day Because we are true AS IS.... Much love to you |
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Grand Magnate
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#4
fuzzy---I am thinking something here that is hard to talk about...
it certainly is bad that people put us down and abuse us... and it is nice that some people are loving with us... there is something else...and I have a problem here... I am very strong inside of me...but I am afraid to use it... I lack courage to say how I am feeling to other important people in my life....I am afraid that they will leave me... I could not be strong with my parents....I was afraid of being left all ALONE....so now with my wife I have a problem of standing up for ME...the little turtle I remember the cowardly lion in the wizard of oz.. that's me.... |
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Mad Walker
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@Fuzzybear
Yes, well this 'someone' needs to be set right if you ask me Fuzzybear, yes. I'm very sorry there's so many - for want of a better description - 'douchebags' out there my friend. I'm still trying to get my head around so many things as well. Just know one fact, though: they're wrong and you're right. Hugs!! |
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#6
There are plenty of us who feel that way. No matter what we do, we feel like we are not good enough. All I can offer is, hang in there! Because you are good enough.
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#7
You are not worthless. You deserve good. Give yourself permission to have it.
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I also think the same way, we cannot control our triggers but we can control our thoughts. And is a positive to negative thoughts game, you have to push in the positive in more than the negative and eventually you are over the water and this is a constant exercise we need to do in my humble view. The douchebags of the world don’t deserve our caring or love so just watch them fall on their own and hopefully see if they learn something. I tell this to my self everyday, and it works most of the time but is not easy I understand, so keep fighting and win your self out of it everyday. Love and hugs |
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#9
Well, that someone is somebody who doesn't deserve to be in your life then. Emotional invalidation is one of the signs of emotional abuse, and if they tell you that your feelings are 'ridiculous', then they need to get the heck out.
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#10
@Fuzzybear
That someone irl, is probably in need of a kick up their rear... er, attitude adjustment for their malnourished empathy. Life's too complicated to waste time & energy on such foolish, ignorant types... |
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Grand Magnate
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Please be good to yourself __________________ Life is not measured by the amount of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away |
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