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Heart Apr 19, 2019 at 01:38 PM
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Everyone here is kind to others...
Why can’t we be kind to ourselves more..

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Default Apr 19, 2019 at 01:52 PM
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it's a good question, and I don't know what the answer is

perhaps it's hatred towards ourselves that makes us put others first?

perhaps it's just an automatic reaction to some to be kind

perhaps it's because we've been treated so poorly by others we're just naturally nice people.

who knows
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I think I forget to look out for me....

My snake is cruel and this doesn't help....

Outwardly speaking I am worthy of loving kindness but inwardly this is much harder to achieve.....

Perhaps we need a time slot in our day to show ourselves kindness?

Much love and kindness to all
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Everyone here is kind to others...
Why can’t we be kind to ourselves more..
Because it's not easy to see the good in others but not in ourselves - same as for other people its easy to see the bad in others but not in themselves.

One never sees themself the same way as they look upon another.

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