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Contrary to what my psychiatrist tells me ("You're totally free from any disorder, it's just your body's coping mechanism instead of a biological disease"), if I accept I am mentally ill (politically correct term "crazy") and there's no running away from it and there are no chances for me to become a hugely successful person, because I really lack the support, I will live a meaningful life.


What more can I ask for?


I'd rather not regret things my situation or illness does not allow me to have.


And screw those who view me in the either extremes.
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Contrary to what my psychiatrist tells me ("You're totally free from any disorder, it's just your body's coping mechanism instead of a biological disease"), if I accept I am mentally ill (politically correct term "crazy") and there's no running away from it and there are no chances for me to become a hugely successful person, because I really lack the support, I will live a meaningful life.


What more can I ask for?


I'd rather not regret things my situation or illness does not allow me to have.


And screw those who view me in the either extremes.


Hi TheLonelyChemist, Although is very difficult for me in my life to accept also the cards I had been dealt (divorce, loss of my children, and my mental disorder) and even Today I fight the current of opinions, because I refuse to allow people opinions shape my life and you should keep moving forward and never stop to chase your dreams.

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Ps. I say this while having to manage my own inner crisis and crap.
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Hi TheLonelyChemist, Although is very difficult for me in my life to accept also the cards I had been dealt (divorce, loss of my children, and my mental disorder) and even Today I fight the current of opinions, because I refuse to allow people opinions shape my life and you should keep moving forward and never stop to chase your dreams.

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I'll change the direction. Doing something related to groundbreaking research? Nope. Something much more easier and doable. Cause honestly, life can be much different from your top expectations.
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Giving a theory of everything would always be my dream, but if you can't just push through, I don't think there's a point in thinking you'll do something very great.
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Giving a theory of everything would always be my dream, but if you can't just push through, I don't think there's a point in thinking you'll do something very great.


I think is just may be the way I am wired, so apologize for saying the wrong thing sincerely, I think you guys are right we should satisfy our hearts and that should enough.

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I'll change the direction. Doing something related to groundbreaking research? Nope. Something much more easier and doable. Cause honestly, life can be much different from your top expectations.
It is good to be positive but sometimes that is an obstacle for full growth. Keep going, my friend..
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Giving a theory of everything would always be my dream, but if you can't just push through, I don't think there's a point in thinking you'll do something very great.
Just because you may not be able to give a theory of everything - why does that mean you cant do something great?
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Just because you may not be able to give a theory of everything - why does that mean you cant do something great?
Then I really don't know what I am supposed to do. And giving a theory of everything is not an obstacle, the obstacle is pushing through school with maximum grades. I don't think it is possible, due to many reasons.



It's not like that I want to only have a BSc degree and do nothing related to science, but unfortunately if I see the big picture I don't think I'll make through PhD, then as a job as an associate professor. Because I have difficulty interacting -- or, rather, difficulty interacting as other kids do -- I'll never get a position in the academia anyway.
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I think is just may be the way I am wired, so apologize for saying the wrong thing sincerely, I think you guys are right we should satisfy our hearts and that should enough.

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That is okay Captain. You should not allow other people to control your life. All I was trying to say is that it is me who cannot be successful.
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