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Wisest Elder Ever
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#1
I haven’t always “controlled” her as I “should”
Was I even “present” when she screwed up? Does she even “deserve” love and acceptance? __________________ |
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Rohag
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Wisest Elder Ever
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Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,360
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#2
I was far too “controlled” when I was a little cub
I even “controlled” myself not to cry at age 7 or even less... to emotional and physical injuries To cry would be “shameful” .. apparently __________________ |
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#3
Yes your inner cub deserves love and acceptance.
She is in pain and needs your love. Allow her to cry, if she wishes I know mine is too numb and programmed not to cry Rejecting, silencing and ignoring inner cubs is very painful. Bonding with them patiently with loving kindness offers some relief Much love to all inner cubs |
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#4
((((((( inner cubs )))))))
__________________ My dog mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it. |
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Wisest Elder Ever
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Much love to all inner cubs __________________ |
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Wisest Elder Ever
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