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Default Jun 13, 2019 at 01:52 PM
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I love adventures too! Though mine are often solo-adventures! Your sis and gfs sounds wonderful...so glad they are in your life.
I am mostly thinking of my gfs before I was married though whenever I see my sister, we never sit around doing nothing. My adventures now mostly involve trying new jobs (I am always switching them around, just signed a contract for teaching online --it will likely be less than 20 hours a week and less than that at first. I am at the end of my Spring temp job which I should be doing right now and have another part time one.)
Before we had kids, my husband and I had a lot of adventures and are hoping to do that again when he retires. We hope to RV part time.
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I am mostly thinking of my gfs before I was married though whenever I see my sister, we never sit around doing nothing. My adventures now mostly involve trying new jobs (I am always switching them around, just signed a contract for teaching online --it will likely be less than 20 hours a week and less than that at first. I am at the end of my Spring temp job which I should be doing right now and have another part time one.)
Before we had kids, my husband and I had a lot of adventures and are hoping to do that again when he retires. We hope to RV part time.
Switching jobs often sounds like a very good way to prevent burnout. I like that idea. I have a friend who does that via travel jobs....short-term positions. He seems to get a real kick out of it.

I think it's fantastic that you and hub enjoy adventures together...marvelous way to reinforce your union. Hope that retirement happens soon
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11. What is the quality you most like in a woman?



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11. What is the quality you most like in a woman?
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Thanks to all for your wonderful responses. Seems like we have a great group here on this thread. I appreciate your contributions.
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Gentle assertiveness with positive intentions.
This sounds impressive!
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This sounds impressive!
A rarity, indeed!

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12. Which words or phrases do you most overuse?

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12. Which words or phrases do you most overuse?

Good question
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12. Which words or phrases do you most overuse?

Good question
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I am lost
"I am lost" LOVE IT!!! That could be the title of my life! Bahahahaha
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I love the Bahahahahahaha.

Still lost, LOLOL

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I love the Bahahahahahaha.

Still lost, LOLOL
What a coincidence! I TOO am still lost!
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Just so you folks know, the questions are pre-written in a notebook I found designed to help people know themselves better. If you'd like to add your own Qs, no problem. Maybe you can use a letter system to label them instead of numbers so it doesn't get too confusing?


Here's Q2:


What is your greatest fear?


Being left all alone.
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Thank you for sharing DownandLonely. My greatest fear is winding up alone forever while alive I mean...to me that would be hell. I wonder if you have ever read 'The Denial of Death' by Ernest Becker? I think you may find some solace in those pages. I personally don't believe in Heaven or Hell. I think my energy will head back to the stars in a different form when my body dies...not a conscious or knowing energy like humans...more like being a basic part of nature....just as when a plant or animal dies. Though I realize that the idea of a loss of consciousness is terrifying to some people. That doesn't sound like your fear though...you're afraid of being trapped, right?


So yours is the exact same as mine.
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So yours is the exact same as mine.
Exactly.
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12. Which words or phrases do you most overuse?
If I've been around a person who says "like" every other word, I start saying it too frequently, also.

In general, though, my overused phrase is, "in general." Generally.

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I say really a lot.
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