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Default May 29, 2019 at 02:54 AM
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A lack of respect by others is very painful and hurtful.

I don't feel I have ever really had true respect from people IRL (no-one here at PC)(or I had raised them myself)

@Amyjay gave a good explanation in another thread.

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It became easier for me when I was able to see their behaviors for what they were - just poor attempts at their own survival and self-regulation. Their behaviors were not about me, but about their own needs, their own wants, their own survival.
Thank you to posters who show respect to others through support and loving kindness no matter how depressed someone is feeling.

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Default May 29, 2019 at 03:41 AM
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I feel we're your coming from. Lack of respect can lead right up to remorse and then wonder why.
Trouble is then it turns into neglect if not sorrow.

We must respect each other

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Default May 29, 2019 at 06:41 AM
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i need to pay most attention to how i am behaving...
am i being patient...am i being kind...am i showing respect..
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Default May 29, 2019 at 11:42 AM
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I think this is a very good thread. Thank you Thirty shades and all the other kind, thoughtful posters who have contributed to it.

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Default May 29, 2019 at 06:54 PM
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Thank you, @Thirty shades.
@Amyjay speaks wisely.

I add my thanks to yours for all those who somehow manage to be kind and respectful of others despite being in agony.

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Thank you Thirty shades.
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Thank you for all your replies.

I send kind respectful wishes for a peaceful day.
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I’m sending kind thoughts to you Thirty shades.
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Every time I show respect or offer a kind gesture... I hope I am putting a little something positive out there in the universe and that somehow it can keep going.... keep showing the respect and kindness so we can keep the momentum going. R e s p e c t
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I agree... every time I show kindness and respect I’m making this world a bit kinder and putting something positive out there.

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I wonder how many people IRL are even aware of how others are feeling?

It is no wonder they have no respect...

Thank you to all those who have respect to everyone here
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I wonder how many people IRL are even aware of how others are feeling?

It is no wonder they have no respect...

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I wonder how many people IRL are even aware of how others are feeling?

It is no wonder they have no respect...

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Much care, kindness and respect to all in this thread

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Thank you for posting it Fuzzy

Send much respect to you and all posters
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