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Trig May 30, 2019 at 05:39 PM
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Something someone said, it wasn’t about me but I feel it was cruel and also often wrong. I think it was said (not recently) to a friend of a friend about someone else. (Not on pc). I do not like gossip. It was something like “the intellectually inferior scream the loudest”..

I was also labelled with something not at all helpful to me by a professional. I must be weak as this bothers me.

I’m not sure why so many people put others down. I’m not sure why some people jump to the worst possible conclusion about some others. I must be stupid. I’m also a whiner as I keep saying I’m stupid.

I do not find the saying about sticks and stones and words to be true for me.

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Default May 31, 2019 at 03:14 AM
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There are too many judgemental people on this planet.

I too don't find this saying to be true for me. Is it weak to feel like we do?

We do not choose our feelings, they are powerful due to past trauma. We are still here despite the pain and that makes us strong.

Labels are not helpful. I agree with Little Turtle, throw away the DSM.

It would be lovely to live in a society where people get on with with each other and has respect and acceptance for everyone.

Much peace to you and everyone
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Something someone said, it wasn’t about me but I feel it was cruel and also often wrong. I think it was said (not recently) to a friend of a friend about someone else. (Not on pc). I do not like gossip. It was something like “the intellectually inferior scream the loudest”..

I was also labelled with something not at all helpful to me by a professional. I must be weak as this bothers me.

I’m not sure why so many people put others down. I’m not sure why some people jump to the worst possible conclusion about some others. I must be stupid. I’m also a whiner as I keep saying I’m stupid.

I do not find the saying about sticks and stones and words to be true for me.

Peace to all.
I don't believe one is negative because they do not follow other's judgements. I think, by not indulging in gossips you did the right thing. You cannot be the weak one here.
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Default May 31, 2019 at 08:11 AM
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Some people can be very judgemental, mountainstream! I'm so sorry you have to put up with such TERRIBLE behavior! Please try not to pay attention to these comments, especially if they aren't directed to you! They tell nothing about you as a person regardless of what they think! Just focus on yourself and at being the best persone you can be, which is YOURSELF! Just take GREAT care of yourself, ok, mountainstream? You're BEAUTIFUL and WONDERFUL just they way you are! Please stay safe and take GREAT care of yourself, ok, mountainstream? WE ALL CARE ABOUT YOU! I PROMISE YOU ALL OF THAT BECAUSE IT IS TRUE! PLEASE REMEMBER ALL OF THAT AS MUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN BECAUSE IT IS TRUE! WE ALL CARE ABOUT YOU! THAT'S A PROMISE! WISH YOU GOOD LUCK! Let us know how things are going for you! Sending many kind, safe, sweet, warm and WONDERUFL HUGS TO YOU, MOUNTAINSTREAM, JUST LIKE YOU ARE! PLEASE BELIEVE THAT BECAUSE IT IS TRUE AND YOU KNOW THAT AS WELL EVEN IF IT'S DEEP DOWN INSIDE YOU!
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