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Question Jun 07, 2019 at 02:26 PM
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Are you a positive person?

If you’re a “negative person” why is this?

Personally I don’t define people in this way. But I’m certainly sensitive to people’s “energies” or vibes especially in irl...

This morning I just stopped by on another online forum, not pc, and logged out right away because of all the “negative” and triggering titles of threads... and I’m not one to easily define someone as a “negative person” but those titles sure discouraged me from staying around there today. Maybe another day if I’m feeling “stronger” I might be able to help or support some of them there.

Papa bear agreed... so it’s not “just me being too sensitive”

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Default Jun 07, 2019 at 04:16 PM
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I am a mixed bag being positive vs negative.

My mood effects how I view my outlook. I always try to be positive but reality knocks me back. I then feel I should know my place. Some days it is hard to stop the negativity. People IRL (not here at PC) and my triggers bring me down.

I like to accept people as they are. Offer support if they want some.

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Default Jun 07, 2019 at 05:46 PM
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love is patient...love is kind...
that is where i want to be...
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Default Jun 07, 2019 at 08:43 PM
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I am capable -- I currently remain capable of "broadcasting" positivity for short periods. Some of that positivity is real, but I suspect some of it is contrived, a product of people-pleasing programming. Broadcasting the positivity, though, drains me. I withdraw into myself rather than present as "negative".

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