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Wisest Elder Ever
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Jun 17, 2019 at 03:46 PM
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It sometimes baffles me how wildly differently different people perceive me
 Mostly in real life and occasionally online too... I am not and have never been someone who wants to define someone by their mistakes... Real or imaginary .... It’s puzzling to me how hard it is for some people,
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How it’s so hard for some people to say something like “I’m sorry I hurt you so much, it wasn’t intentional” As for me, I would apologise to anyone I hurt .... and I do not and never did hurt anyone intentionally... The parental units “blew up” any tiny mistake i made when growing up... Into a crime That I had to always be punished for ...  So.. who am I? Am I that person in the minds of the abusers... or maybe I’m nobody at all  (Not about anyone on pc) __________________ 
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Jun 17, 2019 at 04:08 PM
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You are a kind considerate person.
Your abusers were lying. Sending hugs and respect to you 
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Jun 17, 2019 at 04:19 PM
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Jun 17, 2019 at 05:18 PM
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 And I ask myself whether or not they knew they were lying. Is it possible they were so imprisoned in their own reality that their lies to you were not "lies" in that reality?  I have met people who, apparently, could not distinguish or had lost the ability to distinguish between the truth and their own lies.  Peace to you, dear Fuzzybear.
__________________ My dog  mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.
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Jun 17, 2019 at 05:49 PM
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Jun 18, 2019 at 01:38 AM
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 I too think people believe their own lies. It becomes true to them when they believe an untruth. Sending respect and hugs to all
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