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Grand Magnate
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#1
In short: I feel I fail anyone close to me - ppl and pets alike.
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Yes you are a good person.
Having depression means we cannot always manage to be there or manage like others. Would you think badly of a person in a wheelchair for not being able to walk? Sending much empathy and hugs |
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You’re a good person Crypts..
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You may not remember me, but I remember you.... YOU ARE definitely a very good person. Please be better soon. Be as good as you can to yourself!
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I’m sorry you feel this way. ((Hug))
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Grand Magnate
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By failing ppl and pets though. I don't mean it as being there .. but more of a "I have a responsibility I failed at". For instance, pets rely on you for their care. Husband relies on you to be a support in the relationship. Yes, it is natural to fail in small things once in awhile concerning that or need to attend to yourself at times ... but I am speaking on the "overall" type of thing. Friends rely on you to carry through with your promises. All of those things I have failed in - not willfully - but just bc I don't remember things or simply don't want to do it at the time or etc __________________ Life is not measured by the amount of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away |
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I just meant that we take account of a paralysed person being unable to walk. We and others need to accept where our limitations lie. I think we are judged and our snakes judge us to harshly. Sending respect and loving kindness |
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I feel like I failed my children but still love them. Sometimes I just stay away from them because I have done things that have screwed their lives up or caused them pain; other times I still look for ways to help them. We all fail at something but failing as a mother leaves people in pain even after I am gone.
I understand how painful it feels when you have let others down. Do what you can but know your limitations? Hugs. |
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So I try to do all I can, it just is not enough.. __________________ Life is not measured by the amount of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away |
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I understand how this. I have the same kind of guilt and sadness. |
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Doing what we can is ALWAYS enough, Crypts! You're only human. I understand why you're hurting but please don't put all of these expectations on yourself - no one is perfect! You're doing what you can and I feel like that's ALWAYS enough. Some things are just out of our control sometimes. We're not to blame. Please be kind to yourself! Remember that you're very much Loved here. I hope writing here helps a bit. In any case, you can always PM me, my friend. You know I'll NEVER judge you, and I'm sure plenty of others here will listen without judging as well! Remember that you're stronger than you think. Please hang in there. Keep venting here AS MUCH AS YOU LIKE! You're important, you matter, you're worth it and you're WONDERFUL! You know that's ASOLUTELY true, my dear, sweet friend! Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, @Crypts_Of_The_Mind, and ALL Of Your Loved Ones!
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Want to respond better--You did the best you could! You obviously are a good person. The pain will fade with time and you will remember the good times. Dogs love you no matter what. I am sure they loved you very, very much. Death is always sad but there must have been good times and you will focus more on that eventually. Hugs.
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