The question :(

(Please don’t ask me what the question is.. I typed it out and deleted it again. It’s a bit like the “meaning to life”
Feel free to ignore me.

I wish this world would accept people AS IS ..

But I know this is too much to ask

I also dislike that word and think it is useless. You are anything but that.
(((((((Fuzzybear)))))))

Why should I ignore you? I never ignore friends if I can help it. I do wish you felt comfortable with opening up your thoughts completely though by asking the question. The answers ma uh help you feel better or provide clarity. As to the meaning of life - I think that's different for everyone .. so maybe your question has multiple answers, but no wrong answer? I agree though - ppl should be accepted as is - but we are taught from a young age, we must strive for acceptance and/or perfection. Most of society lives by that belief. I am not sure where the blame for that is - but it is certainly not on you .. so just ignore those who would judge you, bc they are judging themselves too, I can guarantee it - and their harsh judgment of you makes it seem "more acceptable" to have the harsh judgement they have about themselves.. bc they see it as "not as bad".

Hi FuzzyBear, I would love the world in Japan to accept me the way I am, and although they do and I am grateful for it, I know they will never fully accept me, being South American and all, but the interesting part in my life was when I went back for a year to stay with my dad as he was enduring treatment for stage four of cancer, I could see people look at me with disdain and not be friendly just because the way I look (mixed father white and mother brown) and by being different I was assumed a socialist, people will treat me as they would someone they hit their mother hahaha. I just needed to clear my mind make jokes like we Latinos do and enjoy a coffee with friends. I like to believe I accept everyone just as they are and if not I Try to also follow the right path. I can also have my own prejudices and if I do I try to fix them. But my depression and anxiety disorders makes it all difficult. I guess Fuzzy all we can do is accept others who don’t accept us as they are and accept ourselves they we are. I tired of fighting and I need to live long for when I can see my kids I can still show them a dad.

Fuzzy always here as much as I can.
This is our virtual Tribe. I like to imagine you guys how you are physically and we are all around a camp fire at the beach and eating good BBQ and listening to nice musics and I can tell you my jokes.

I wish who knows may be some day

I also wish this world would accept people AS IS ..

Why is it so hard to reject the vicious words of our abusers?

I try to love myself and my snake but keep getting tripped up.

Sending much love to all

You're a sweetheart through and through and one of the reasons (PC people like you ) I still check in at PC. I have always liked you. Love you the way you are. Not giving TMI gives you a mysterious aura!

I certainly accept you for who you are, and I'm sure plenty of others do too here. Please be kind to yourself. You're worth it, more than you imagine. I care about you. Feel free to PM me anytime. You're a wonderful person and I'm sure you know it deep inside you. Keep fighting, my friend. You're a strong bear! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH You, Fuzzybear, your Loved Ones and EVERYONE ELSE!