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Grand Magnate
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I am done trying to talk. Done trying to feel anything but how I think. Nobody truly cares anyway. I say "I want to die" is answered back with "join the club" or "me too". Those answers would be concerning- except these are things I hear even for mundane things like "I'm tired" .. and others, it's almost anything I say concerning me gets those replies.
Examples of what I may say to elicit those responses: - I'm hungry - I'm bored - I had a bad childhood - Sometimes I feel I cannot breathe - I want to die - I want to kill myself - I'm tired - I've been busy all day And that's just a few. So those responses to my statement "I want to die" is not concerning to me anymore. I am just tired of being a nobody. So - I am done trying. __________________ Life is not measured by the amount of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away |
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i hear ya, i really do. i'm like a ghost (invisible) .....
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Hugs to you Crypts and all that feel like no one cares.
Self love. If you feel tired--don't feel guilty about resting (hugs if you can't rest because you are tired at work); If you are hungry because of lack of funds--I am sorry about this (I remember that you are struggling financially ); I am glad you are talking about the bad childhood but feel it/acknowledge it but try not to think about it constantly because thinking about it too much hinders your progress. Hope things get better. Hope you can find hope somehow. |
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I understand and appreciate you are caring and trying to be helpful so please do not see my response as being negative on any way. It is simply me clearing yo p any confusion. Much love to you n all. __________________ Life is not measured by the amount of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away |
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But, crypt you are not a nobody. I've felt the same recently. Hugs
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You exist my dear.I do feel I am nobody,invisible.That is the feeling others have programmed in me.But I still exist like you.We need to increase our own vaule,nobody else will do it for us.We need to validate ourselves.Hugs.
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Your feelings are COMPLETELY valid, @Crypts_Of_The_Mind! I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH WHAT ALL THE OTHER WISE, WONDERFUL POSTERS HAVE ALREADY WISELY SAID BETTER THAN I EVER COULD! I am SO SORRY for what you're going through! I am here for you if that helps. You know you can always reach out to me. Please do that if you wish to do so and need help and advice! Please be kind to yourself! You know you are important, you matter, you're worth it, you're wise and you're wonderful! Don't let ANYONE tell you that is NOT true because IT IS! Remember that your feeling are ALWAYS valid BECAUSE THEY ARE! Feel free to PM me ANYTIME as usual if you need advice and support! Don't be afraid to reach out to me or ANYONE HERE! I am SURE plenty of people will also GLADLY AND WONDERFULLY HELP YOU OUT IF YOU JUST ASK! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Crypts_Of_The_Mind, your family, your friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Please do keep fighting and do keep rocking as much as you possibly can like you're already WONDERFULLY doing ALL and ENTIRELY by YOURSELF and ALL and ENTIRELY ON YOUR OWN! KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING!
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Honestly - this is not a consistent feeling like it used to be - but if I do not vent it out when it's there, I get sucked in by it. I went 35yrs with constant depression. Now, it comes n goes- mostly when a new "traumatic event" happens (death if a loved one/pet, end of relationship, etc)
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If you've helped one person, just one, do you feel a bit useful? I know my username changed, and I'm also trying to leave the past alone, but honest to god your life has helped mine just by your sharing your life a bit. You asked me questions I could not answer on a public forum in great detail. But you got the ball rolling, you guided me to question my thinking. For that I am truly grateful.
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Grand Magnate
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Hope things are looking up for you. *hugs* __________________ Life is not measured by the amount of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away |
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I can tell you I've felt invalidated and ignored today too but that won't help. Being useful does help. Yes I do have to do the work to get in a better place. Still trying.
Sorry I talk about myself. Don't know what to say except I hope you have better days and someone irl can stop ignoring and make you feel validated crypts. You DO matter. |
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Grand Magnate
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Sorry I missed this. I hope you do not still believe yourself to be a ghost. That's a terrible feeling and I don't feel anyone should be treated in such a manner to bring that feeling. I hope you are doing better now. ❤❤
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