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Default Sep 26, 2019 at 11:42 AM
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Someone said to me...
that I 'couldn't be a better friend..
but the pain won't let me feel anything but pain'

that is one thing, probably the only thing I can do 'well' ... be a true and loyal friend.
(and of course. 'doing things well' is the only definition of the Value of a Person ) (so I've been told by some in this forest irl, particularly family members )

which, given the 'nature' of the whole 'family of origin' might refute those who claim i'm unable to 'move on' or ………. etc... (it isn't a black and white thing, or a particularly useful concept to me personally as it tends to be used by people who don't care to listen, not only of course … )

I'm also very gifted at being misunderstood

and having read this post i'm not sure I would understand it either if I was unknown to me

(not about anyone on pc)

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Default Sep 26, 2019 at 12:59 PM
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You are the best friend anyone could have

I understand, it is hard to understand but do they try?
We experience it and know it...
And yet we still struggle to know how to escape it...
They convince us we are faulty....
Yet we are still here...
That takes strength...
Yet they see us as weak

It is not our fault our true gifts were stolen..
That we live in the shadows..
That they choose to not understand..
That they see us as weak...
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Default Sep 26, 2019 at 01:02 PM
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Thank you dear Thirty shades

I don’t think they try to understand irl

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Fuzzybear

You are the best friend anyone could have

I understand, it is hard to understand but do they try?
We experience it and know it...
And yet we still struggle to know how to escape it...
They convince us we are faulty....
Yet we are still here...
That takes strength...
Yet they see us as weak

It is not our fault our true gifts were stolen..
That we live in the shadows..
That they choose to not understand..
That they see us as weak...

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