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Nov 13, 2019 at 02:44 PM
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''not fitting in'' - this seems to be a common fear or feeling
 It isn't really something I feel although I felt it all the time when a cub. How do we make this forum welcoming for all? I'm not suggesting it isn't welcoming. I wonder how we can make it more welcoming? ''not allowed to be angry'' - another common feeling Only deserving support if in ''crisis'' (irl and even online sometimes.) This makes me sad. I don't even ask for support irl when in crisis. I deal with it without asking for help from professionals. I've seen the ''wrong'' professionals. I don't even know why I'm writing this. Thanks and love to all those who relate, even somewhat, and to all those who support others and share their kindness here. 
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Nov 13, 2019 at 02:48 PM
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 don't bother talking fuzzybear, not worth it 
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Nov 13, 2019 at 02:59 PM
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ouch. ouch,
''bad paws'' is back yeah right. hibernation is so very attractive right now
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Nov 13, 2019 at 03:20 PM
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 I offer authentic support. But I don't deserve to speak. Where is the logic there. its very flawed ''logic''Ridiculous toxic seeds sewed by abusers irl. Oh I wish I had a magic wand or the ''right'' ''meds'' to make this go away
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Nov 13, 2019 at 03:31 PM
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Dear fuzzy,abusers hate logic.They operate illogically.Hugs.
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Nov 13, 2019 at 03:45 PM
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Nov 13, 2019 at 04:25 PM
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Many find power by stealing our energy and souls...
When we hid they win. When we stand they kick us down  When we hide we are stabbed in our backs with verbal attacks and gaslighting I also agree, abusers do hate logic and operate illogically. 
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Nov 13, 2019 at 04:49 PM
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Nov 14, 2019 at 06:10 AM
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Dear Fuzzybear, Most of us know there is no one on this planet more welcoming than you! So I guess some things are just too complicated & illogical to understand. But thank goodness we have you. Please don't hibernate!
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Nov 14, 2019 at 03:02 PM
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That's so you, Fuzzy Bear, to wonder how this forum can be even better.
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