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Heart Feb 18, 2020 at 03:38 PM
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Default Feb 18, 2020 at 03:40 PM
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all the suicides...

it is very sad

I would not be able to be a pdoc or a therapist

all that power

all that ''responsibility'' to heal those who have been harmed by others

or who have a ''chemical imbalance'' as the books say

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Default Feb 18, 2020 at 04:21 PM
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fuzzy recently one good friend died young...
another good friend left...his son died by suicide..

we have to love ourself first...
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fuzzy recently one good friend died young...
another good friend left...his son died by suicide..

we have to love ourself first...
yeah

love self first... that is what my parents did, but didn't …. ugh

thud

I think it would be nice to hibernate for a long time, that would be self love..

BEARS are supposed to hibernate

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Default Feb 18, 2020 at 04:28 PM
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There is no love from those who are supposed to ''care''

we are supposed to...……………………………………

its boring



(in real life)

maybe that therapist who

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LABELS

Wrong labels

I think I ''should'' shut up (for now anyway)

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Did you know many therapists with Narcissistic Personality Disorder?

I think you said you had a kind, loving therapist?

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Default Feb 18, 2020 at 05:52 PM
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Self love is very hard....
Others do not love those who do not have love for themselves...

Is this why we are unlovable?

I offer too much love too me

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Self love is very hard....
Others do not love those who do not have love for themselves...

Is this why we are unlovable?

I offer too much love too me

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Much love to you dear Thirty shades

I am not convinced that we are ''unlovable''

Do you offer ''too much'' love? do I?

Hugs and much love to you Thirty shades and little turtle

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Much love to you dear Thirty shades

I am not convinced that we are ''unlovable''

Do you offer ''too much'' love? do I?

Hugs and much love to you Thirty shades and little turtle
Love is limitless, so I thought...
How can it be that anyone loves too much...

I don't think we are unlovable but just treated this way.
Some people tend to just feed on our love.
Maybe this is why we attract so many Narcissist's
Or maybe we are just more comfortable around them having been brought up by them?

I think Little Turtle is right we need to give ourselves love.

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Default Feb 22, 2020 at 11:34 AM
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Ah... So much in this thread.
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I wish I had said to one of the units that ''I AM A GOOD GIRL''

I really do not think they would have listened
I am glad you wish you had said that.
Also, I agree they would not have listened.
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All communication is so hard, with papa bear, with doctors, other professionals, even online sometimes.
Yes. Communication is hard. Miscommunication is easy.

More specifically,
communication is difficult even with those who want to communicate.
How much more difficult is communication with those who don't care about communicating.

I would like to believe that even failed attempts to communicate with that first group, those who want to communicate, are nevertheless positive and cumulatively contribute to Good.


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Ah... So much in this thread.

I am glad you wish you had said that.
Also, I agree they would not have listened.
((((((( )))))))

Yes. Communication is hard. Miscommunication is easy.

More specifically,
communication is difficult even with those who want to communicate.
How much more difficult is communication with those who don't care about communicating.

I would like to believe that even failed attempts to communicate with that first group, those who want to communicate, are nevertheless positive and cumulatively contribute to Good.


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