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Default Sep 23, 2020 at 05:55 AM
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i need to be patient and kind with my wife
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Default Sep 23, 2020 at 10:22 AM
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Little Turtle, as you look back, can you discern distinct "seasons" in the course of your relationship with your wife?

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Little Turtle, as you look back, can you discern distinct "seasons" in the course of your relationship with your wife?
thanks rohag----i don't think so...not sure
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Love and hugs to all on the AS IS bus

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i am shocked...i didn't realize all the depakote side effects...
very depressing
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Hello and hugs to all - I've been away from the forum for a little while due to a couple of medical situations.

Turtle, I just want to say that tho I haven't been married as long as you I certainly have gone through "seasons" with it -- many due to my own obtuseness!

But I think anyone who has been married for a while would agree that they go through stages...

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Hello and hugs to all - I've been away from the forum for a little while due to a couple of medical situations.

Turtle, I just want to say that tho I haven't been married as long as you I certainly have gone through "seasons" with it -- many due to my own obtuseness!

But I think anyone who has been married for a while would agree that they go through stages...
glad you are back mopey....stages...ok
#1 ...thought i would have a friend as my partner
#2...very soon discovered this was not going good
#3....after 63 years of fighting the relationship is a little better
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wow i just reread a story about a lady that is an inspiration...
her name is annita sawyer....you can find her on the MAD IN AMERICA website..
she is a phd..and yes her first name is annita
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glad you are back mopey....stages...ok
#1 ...thought i would have a friend as my partner
#2...very soon discovered this was not going good
#3....after 63 years of fighting the relationship is a little better
I guess that's progress, turtle!

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I guess that's progress, turtle!
it is more like being in the corner of a boxing fight exhausted...
and too old to fight anymore
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it is more like being in the corner of a boxing fight exhausted...
and too old to fight anymore
Ohh..............

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wow i just reread a story about a lady that is an inspiration...
her name is annita sawyer....you can find her on the MAD IN AMERICA website..
she is a phd..and yes her first name is annita
Thanks for this and for all you share here dear little turtle

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i feel so sorry for all the suffering here on this depression forum...
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i have had 3 major breakdowns...
i have no idea of what caused them...
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Confessions of little turtle with love #5

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i love my valium...but i became addicted on 5 mg twice a day...
my valium is hiding in the closet...but i know exactly where it is...
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i have had 3 major breakdowns...
i have no idea of what caused them...
Were you not able to function at all during these, Turtle? And if so, how did you come out of them?

If you don't mind my asking...

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that is a good question mopey...i can answer best for breakdown #3...
i could do very little at first... 2 weeks crying wanting to die...
then i was on social security disability for 4-5 years...did some research
before i returned to work at a public mental health clinic...
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Wow -- I'm trying to wrap my mind around this; there really are no words for such suffering. (((((( HUGS )))))). I'm so sorry.

May I ask what you did research on?

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