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Grand Magnate
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#1
Life is so complicated.
Do I stand up for myself and hurt others? or Do I lie down and let them all walk over me, so everyone gets what they want while I suffer intolerable abuse? I must be so worthless to others and they want to steal any worth I can muster for myself.... |
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Grrrrrr at the abusers. Abuse is NEVER acceptable.
Much love and respect to you dear Thirty shades, __________________ |
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Grand Magnate
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Grand Magnate
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#4
Thank you Fuzzybear and Little turtle.
My feelings are ignored |
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Grand Magnate
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I know something that is inconvenient to others. I found the courage to speak. But I am expected to miss out while my abuser is forgiven for his crimes. |
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Grand Magnate
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thanks TS...sending love to you...
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I finally found there was a different way. First I had to figure out what my needs were, then I had to figure out how to say them without criticizing the other. Like, "I'm really sorry, but I don't think I can do that right now," and so forth. It takes a lot of figuring because I am extremely wimpy, but I find it works better than just striking out. Hugs to you..... __________________ |
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That is GREAT that you found the courage to speak. Abusers hate that, they repeatedly attempt (pathetically...) to silence us. Abusers are sneaky, slimy, calculating individuals. They (or part of them) feel ''superior'' but deep inside they know they are NOT and they feel threatened by our truth,, I can relate, in ''family'' the abusers were forgiven for their crimes and deceit... I was forced to miss out Much love and respect always __________________ |
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