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Betrayal - is the wilful slaughter of hope.
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@Thirty shades, what you just posted describes EXACTLY what I have been experiencing when it comes to my older sister.
I try to remind myself how Bill Cosby had such a good reputation and was thought of as a good person, good father and good man UNTIL the truth about him came out and it was absolutely horrible and so many people were shocked. Nobody thought Scott Peterson was ever capable of murdering Lacy who was carrying his child. When we discover a person has a very dark side to them it's extremely hard to come to terms with. We experience so many emotions and lose faith in ourselves that we had not somehow seen the reality until it was too late. |
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@Thirty shades
Great posts ... I have experienced EXCATLY that. I do not enjoy it when we find the hidden, dark side of a person. It is indeed BETRAYAL Thanks as always for your thoughtful, insightful posts and your continued respect to ALL __________________ |
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Thank you for starting this thread. Many of us have faced the wilful slaughter of hope. |
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Thank you dear friend. You know, I am ''hyper sensitive'' to EVERYTHING, as a professional told me. One thing which sometimes gets my GOAT is.... well... everything I guess... I ''should'' have not lived beyond the age of 9 months. It is ''difficult'' for those of us whose Maternal Units have an inability to love
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I cried and cried for the loss of someone that did not really exist. It really made me question myself in a way I never imagined. That’s like Katie Couric who thought she knew and could trust Matt Lauer. She had no idea he had this awful side to him. Last edited by Open Eyes; Oct 15, 2020 at 06:23 PM.. |
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Its funny the Wise Thirty Shades (who is a very good friend of mine, there is NO sarcasm here) said how some people think we are Narcissists? NO. If only they knew our PAIN __________________ |
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We think we know a person. We really believe the best in them. If we are blinded to their dark side, we are setting ourselves up to be betrayed. In someones beautiful rainbow colour's, we don't see any black... No nighttime rainbows... You are right, we then have to grieve their loss. |
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She had no idea he had that awful side to him.
This thread is about BETRAYAL Thank you Thirty shades for your responses __________________ |
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Sometimes I feel overwhelmed by the support given here.
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