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Jan 18, 2019 at 09:46 PM
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Due to the variety of alter types....we (some) are very consumed on looks to points of obsession.
Is there a way to break from such group thinking and concerns? |
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Jan 18, 2019 at 09:58 PM
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What a good question. You know, it is SO "not me", but i never really questioned it. I was always bullied into thinking it was important. But its not ME. Its a very well developed part of me, but its not me. IYKWIM.
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Jan 19, 2019 at 02:47 PM
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I was bullied by various pitas/povs (pieces of vile ****) to think looks are (“supremely”) important, maybe one reason I am now a bear.
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Jan 19, 2019 at 04:36 PM
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My T would say "What purpose does it serve?" She believes every behavior is there to serve a purpose that benefits the whole. If they didn't need to do that, they wouldn't.
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Jan 19, 2019 at 04:51 PM
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