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Feb 06, 2019 at 07:54 AM
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Why do we do that to ourselves? The guys volunteered to take on a head maintenance job running the whole apartment complex and dealing with the stress of residents, co-employees, bosses, and owners. We were suppose to just go to work, do our 40 hours, then come home unbothered.
Now they invited mom in and all those mixed feelings... We now have 2, not 1, but 2 car loans in our name for $40,000... Credit cards? For Amazon and general use... A new phone loan for $1,500.... And we said that we were going to live stress free... Plus an over grown brat. Idk...past history says we don’t do well long under pressure....and some cracks are starting to appear. But we keep telling ourselves that this is nothing but a thing and we shouldn’t be overthinking this. Maybe after all these years we are finally set up for success? Here’s to keeping my fingers crossed. |
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Feb 06, 2019 at 11:16 AM
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I'm glad there is confidence to fight push on to achieve the ultimate goal, which is relaxing and meeting those responsibilities in life.
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Feb 06, 2019 at 01:26 PM
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I know this is what normal people do...but that’s normal people. I’m going to work hard to get everything payed off fast and put a lid on unnecessary spending.
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Feb 06, 2019 at 03:15 PM
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I'm so sorry, AlwaysChanging2
 Please don't give up. I know how hard things can be. You've got this. From what you wrote, it sounds like you're trying the best you can, and that's great! That's all you can do after all. Don't be so hard on yourself. I hope you'll feel better soon. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Is there anything we can do to help you? Please let us know. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you  
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Feb 08, 2019 at 07:33 AM
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Well, I don’t feel that way... who ever wrote that sounds like a weenie. We got this covered.
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