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Default Oct 07, 2019 at 01:50 PM
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Working with a cross over exercise front how do you help them with team work. Track and field & football!

They aren't all vain either ……..Why aren't they in compliance with other things like I must eat in a more uniformed why. Are they guilty over potatoes and pork?

I am heavy set they can't be all helpful to me either most want the size 2 in life.

So when you let them out of the disconnects most men are quiet how do you make some of the less artistic caucasion be more little more expressive. I tried the Eminem approach. What about when they want his same credit?

I told them I am white is white board hite, like heights the first therapist and our team igth which means essentially okay I taught urban speek sometimes they don't get it remember the cognitive decline you can experience. Ur native language though is say what comes to mind yes you can repeat her why must u suffer in silence but imposters get exposed I protect them because she is with someone. This is my imbedded trigger to see if you notice whatever the next interaction is, right? Now if we are buddied up then I need the team of those that need the information of us noticing exposed. The wall is to barrier like heights is why height you will be at 3 will double. Three alters to diagnoses what is so hard about this approach. After 2002, what else you want to know socks onesis babies anything else? How we watch television who help plot character developed. When the children are pulling us out of the door don't woose up tell him no young man or women. Please check to make sure that the system isn't oddly complaint to where it seems like we are obeying someone who is getting us unsafe like what got us in this or our mistakes shouldn't drive us either except for at certain times when we need to be harmful to ourselves …..Don't go to the complete jerk in triggered phase and ask him!
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Default Oct 07, 2019 at 04:47 PM
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I wish I could understand... I read, I try.
How are you today, Dlantern?
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@dlantern So sorry you are struggling. It sounds like you have alters who are concerned about weight, alters who are ethnically different, and a system that had undergone a tremendous amount of trauma.

I have alters who had eating disorders. One was bulimic. One did not want to eat at all. Some alters were Hispanic. I am not Hispanic at all, but I had friends who were, and one Hispanic friend passed away. I guess I internalized the trauma. But in real life I looked Hispanic, depending on my cosmetics and dress style. I was called names and bullied in school by people who did not like Hispanics. My Hispanic friends and I were sad.

I am really Half Japanese and Half White, but my appearances differ. My dad is White and he said mean things about Japanese people, and he beat up my Japanese mom. He kept remembering WWII, when he was a merchant marine.

I internalized all that too.

I hope this does not trigger. If it does, I am sorry. I just want to help somehow. I suck at helping. But I try.

You are not alone in the struggle. Our system had to compromise and help each other.

I am now overweight. I never was most of my life, but I am now. We are okay being overweight. It is temporary, I think. Eating is hard for us, too. Some of our alters hate meat, some love it, and I can deal with vegetarian or carnivorous meals. There are times when I feel grossed out by meat, and other times when I crave cheeseburgers. Go figure!

I hope you can be gentle with yourself and your parts. You all deserve care and safety.
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Default Oct 08, 2019 at 06:37 PM
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me to by 30lbs at 5"3 I am not going to let it destroy me though. I can only keep a few things in the cabinets and freezer these days because of the awful fights with food. I think that Is validating that some hate meat and others just plain don't take to food at all especially the other cultures.

what do you do if your bigger family types insist on eating with those cultures or it could be a sign of disrespect. I think this is the reason I search because most just get in the way on the issue.....Most being programmed for ad hoc reason to wreak havoc and join a few others that take it too far. 30lbs isn't that bad instead of 80 to 100lbs over weight. Anyway, I guess it is good for the budget when you think about and kitchen cleaning. It is horrible for those that suffer from lack of food in world.
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