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I completely agree!I don't think the man she is having an affair with cares either
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I don't think she cares about anyone but herself. I still think that the meditation should be held accountable I still feel that the man she had an affair with should be held accountable as well.
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And at this point almost a year later I think the accountability has taken its full course. She doesn't have a home anymore and she only sees her kids half of the week. All so that she could pursue a selfish sexual fantasy with a man who ended up not leaving his wife. The chickens really came home to roost for her. Now she has nobody. |
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Buffy, I appreciate your responses. Months ago when I wrote those posts I could have used that advice! It's almost a year on now, and we have been divorced for several months. I got the house and most of the custody of the kids in the divorce, and she is relegated to paying too much rent for a small apartment and the man she "loved" decided to stay with his wife. My relationship with her is completely over, and I'm doing well now. We have both moved on.
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It's great to hear you're doing so well, mapman.
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Yes, I remember this thread, mapman, and am glad that you're doing well. Karma did come back to bite your ex wife. I hate to say it, but she got what she deserved, I feel.
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Couldn't agree more, golden_eve! A big part of my recovery from this trauma was the support I got from so many people, including you and others here on this forum. Thank you all so much!
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I’m so terribly sorry. I read the entire story you posted and my heart goes out to you... in total compassion as someone who has been through a betrayal like this.
My opinion is.... Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior. In my situation, I chose to leave due to my ex’s cheating and I’m so glad I did. My ex’s current wife has contacted me through social media to complain my ex is cheating on her. I expected he would do the same to her that he did to me. Why does your ex not want to “lose” you? Is she worried about making it financially on her own? I work with someone who is known to regularly have affairs but won’t leave her husband because then she would have to financially take care of herself and she can’t afford to do it. I think her behavior is despicable... even more ridiculous is that all her personal problems affect her work and we have to deal with that. All of us at work had no sympathy when we learned the husband has found someone else and wants to leave her. She had a breakdown over that, once again it was unprofessionally aired at work... And all because she doesn’t want to stop cheating but she can’t afford to pay her own bills. Anyway, we stay out of her drama but secretly we hope her husband leaves her. You are right to protect your emotional and mental health... financially you must also protect yourself. I wish you all the best. There are good people out there but unfortunately there are a lot of selfish people who commit wretched acts of betrayal to the people they supposedly love the most. I hope you encounter more of the good people out there from now on. |
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My brother mistress had stalk me. I have too sister who has multiple affairs and has stalk the wives but will never admitted it.
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