Please help... Maybe i have disorder

Hello everyone ! I am new here (from Google).

If you can help me to guess what i have...

In general my problem is social. I have other face in some society. It is destroying me... for example, in my job i look silly. Sometimes i can't talk very well. Everyone knows i am kind and stupid person, but i am not. In university everyone have respect for me, I am very confident and Sociable. And some friends i am Womanizer (lol). Sometimes i think i have many roles in every society.

I have deppresion since teenager years. Big strees and anxiety.

Hello @Gary900! Welcome to this WONDERFUL Forum! Unfortunately we can't really diagnose you here as we are not Doctors. I'd suggest to talk to your Doctor about ALL of this and see how it goes from there. Hopefully he/she will be able to help you. From what you wrote it seems like you may be suffering from social anxiety although you wrote that it mostly affects your job. Perhaps that's something worth exploring in therapy? I'd suggest to talk to a therapist about ALL of this. Wish you the best of luck! Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, Gary900, and to ALL the people you love and who love you!

Hello Gary: Thank you for bringing your concern here to PC. Welcome to Psych Central. You mentioned, in general, you feel your problem is social. There is a sub-forum, here on PC, dedicated to the subject of social anxiety. Here's a link:

https://psychcentralforums.com/socia...ective-mutism/

You also mentioned anxiety & depression as being big problems. So here are links to those forums as well:

https://psychcentralforums.com/anxie...c-and-phobias/

https://psychcentralforums.com/depression/

As has already been mentioned, we here on PC cannot diagnose you. However, one thing you might do in order to form a clearer picture regarding what's going on, is to take some of the quizzes & tests that are on offer. Here's a link to the listing of quizzes & tests that are available:

Psychological Quizzes and Tests

Here are links to 4 articles by our host Dr. John Grohol, Psy.D. on the subjects of depression, anxiety & social anxiety. These articles also provide links to additional articles on their subjects:

Depression: Symptoms, Types & Treatments | Psych Central

https://psychcentral.com/depression/...ression-guide/

https://psychcentral.com/anxiety/

https://psychcentral.com/anxiety/soc...iety-overview/

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.

since you are new and asking us to diagnose you, Im guessing you missed reading the registration information on this. if you look at the bottom of every psych central forums you will see this........

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in other words we are not allowed to diagnose each others problems or tell each other what is going on inside other members.

what we do here at psych central is everyone shares whats going on in their lives and just like if you were sitting in your living room talking with your friends others reply to you sharing their own stories of what is going on in their own bodies that may be in common with what you posted.

we can also make suggestions of things other members can do to help their self based on what we ourselves have done to help our selves.

we can also tell you what our own treatment providers say about our own problems and how they are helping us with our own problems.

but for things directly related to you, you will need to contact your own treatment providers who can help you figure out what is going on inside your own body and get you set up for any kinds of treatment plans that you may need for your own problems.

welcome to Psych central where we are all just like you, people with problems sharing our lives and problems with each other, forming friendships and exchanging helpful tools, music, art, therapy techniques, playing games and reading mental health related articles.

hey no one here is a doctor who can figure it all out, but you know everyone plays different roles in different places. that's pretty normal. how you act with your friends would not be appropriate at work, or say at a religious meeting. you might enjoy quiet time at home but enjoy going out to clubs as well. everyone has these different sides. we all can be loud, funny, introverted, shy, etc. it's parts of our whole personality.

first off take a deep breath. you said you are both smart at school but silly and yet people respect you....that doesn't happen unless you are a decent person..respect has to be earned.

that being sad if it feels like something is wrong...go find a counselor to talk to ...ask them, tell them how you feel. maybe they can help you find some balance. sometimes people just need someone to remind them they are ok

ask the dr about meds for the depression to see if they help...if you have not already. talk to the pros. get some answers & then relax, take their advice & hopefully you'll be ok..