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Mar 10, 2019 at 03:08 PM
#21
Things will get better. You will have money. You will have money to travel. You will have travel plans. Mom will still be alive. You will have better self esteem. You will be doing so much better. You will be happier.
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Mar 10, 2019 at 09:32 PM
#22
Get help much sooner , I’m a mess at 52 atm
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Mar 11, 2019 at 05:08 AM
#23
Oddly, hold on, it will get better.
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Mar 12, 2019 at 07:53 AM
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It's ok to cry you are safe
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Mar 14, 2019 at 12:52 AM
#25
Don’t waste your time and money by hiring a therapist. They are useless.
__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Mar 14, 2019 at 01:12 AM
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I would tell her:
"You are not who you think you are. Trust me. I know you much, much better and I love you! The people you live with are not to be your guides. They are ill. They do not understand you and that is okay. A wonderful doctor is just around the corner. She's going to bring you back from this hell. She'll introduce you to the person I love. Please be gentle and kind to that person. She deserves it. I have seen the future baby love, and it is bright! Don't give up! Listen to the doctor when you meet her and please don't give up!" |
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Mar 14, 2019 at 02:14 AM
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I'd tell myself it gets a little better then you get married and it all goes to crap again. DO NOT marry for love, it is just not enough. Get into therapy and get on meds as soon as you can it will make a world of difference. NONE of what has happened is your fault. They are sick twisted people who you should tell on as soon as you can. Your mother is broken you can't fix her just stay the hell out of her way. She does love you she is just too broken to love without hurting you.
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Mar 14, 2019 at 10:25 AM
#28
Stop trying so hard to fit in. Don't be embarrassed to show your true colors.
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Mar 14, 2019 at 11:11 AM
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To take the positive of what others say to heart.
__________________ "Are we not all hungry ghosts chasing the phantoms of our choice?" - Alexander Lazarus Wolff “Live or die, but don't poison everything.” -Anne Sexton “If with a pure mind a person speaks or acts, happiness follows them like a never-departing shadow.” - The Buddha |
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Mar 15, 2019 at 04:46 AM
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Tell the teachers about the bullying and the OCD, better getting help now than ending up in hospital at 17. Also, don't do anything you don't want to just to keep others happy, and don't have a smear test as a virgin, as it will help you decide who and what you really are without that extra confusion over painful sex.
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Mar 17, 2019 at 10:16 AM
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Yeah, I'm the same Skeezyks. I was too scared, because I thought that I might be injured rather than killed - and I already knew from the abuse how long it takes to die. I don't hate my life, but I wouldn't live through the years 8 to 18 again whatever the alternative might be. More horrible than I can allow myself to remember. __________________ *"Fierce <-> Reality"* oh god I am struggling today, help me to remember how to stay connected and human! remember: the nut shell against human predators and my own fear! |
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Apr 05, 2019 at 08:46 AM
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Just do the damned schoolwork...do it until you're doing it well and don't stop.
Now here...take a good look at me... Now look at my wallet and the car I just drove here in. DO THE DAMNED SCHOOLWORK KID...D'YA GET IT NOW?? |
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Apr 05, 2019 at 10:04 AM
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Given the chance I'd get pregnant again, but someone loving.
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Apr 05, 2019 at 11:09 AM
#34
-Stop eating junk for lunch.
-There is SO much you have to learn. -Be kind for everyone is fighting a battle you know nothing of. -The popular kids aren't worth it. Popular is just code for mean. -You're awesome. |
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May 13, 2019 at 06:46 PM
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YOU...ARE...NOT...WEIRD...!
Girl, you are just not that weird after all. Oh, and... You were just ahead of your time. One day other black kids will wear vans and listen to Linkin Park without looking at each other like pariahs. Oy. |
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May 16, 2019 at 06:45 PM
#36
You are lovable just the way you are. The other kids can stick it. The parents too.
Chasing boys and friends will only lead to abuse and heartache. Save your love for someone who will truly love you. And learn to love yourself because you are worth it. Do the work. The homework, the jobs, everything. And figure out what your passion is. |
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May 17, 2019 at 02:58 AM
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To focus learning mathematics, to opt for mathematics at the higher level. To not worry about things such as romantic partners just yet. Try to learn to drive. Befriend your relatives. Try to study by reading books from Western authors. Aim to become either a surgeon or an astrophysicist. Don't be afraid of failure. Your psychiatrist will help you get through this. Just trust.
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May 18, 2019 at 02:04 PM
#38
You are safe, no one is going to hurt you ever again
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May 18, 2019 at 02:09 PM
#39
Run away little girl! Run away!!
__________________  https://imaginativefusion.wixsite.com/mysite/blogWinners are losers who got up and gave it one more try. - Dennis DeYoung "It is possible to turn poison into medicine." ~ Tina Turner Remember we're all in this alone. ~ Lily Tomlin |
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May 18, 2019 at 02:52 PM
#40
Get out!
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