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Default May 20, 2019 at 09:25 PM
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My coworkers are not my friends and I am going to stop responding to their texts and just be polite to them. I’m tired of their passive aggressive remarks and then they turn around and are nice. They are not legit friends and I refuse to be taken advantage of. Today I simply asked one of them if it was rainy outside. She said yes and then I saw her exchange a smile with another so called friend and then look at me. Also I’ve put on about 13 pounds. I have severe constipation and I have not changed my eating habits much. So I think the constipation is partially the cause for the weight gain. Today I had a bag of chips for snack. A 140 calorie baked bag of Ruffles. This 3rd so called friend said “I’m having waffles. I’m eating healthy unlike Mountaindewed.” She then smiled at me and patted me on the back. I just can’t do this anymore. They are fake people. Also I heard them gossip about a compliment a manager gave me. They rolled their eyes about it like they didn’t believe I was capable of it. I’m just done. They also embarrass me on purpose in a passive aggressive way by going up to my mom and talking to her. They think they can just take my food without me offering it first. They text me super late at night and super early in the morning. Sorry for the rant. I told multiple therapists I didn’t want friends and the therapists were so pushy and I ended up being right all along.

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Default May 21, 2019 at 01:03 AM
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Do you think this qualifies as workplace harassment that would be something human resources would help you with? Or would that make more problems?

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Default May 21, 2019 at 10:46 AM
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Don't play their game(s).

It sounds like they are just jerks looking to be jerks.

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