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Default Jan 27, 2020 at 06:41 PM
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This is dumb but When the girl u liked back in college has a lot of quiet songs & u think it means that she still think of u but I don't think it means anything I guess she just likes the songs. But the songs are quite hearts, quiet Storms & it's oh so quiet.
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Default Jan 27, 2020 at 07:01 PM
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Are you still in touch with her?

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Default Jan 27, 2020 at 07:11 PM
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Are you still in touch with her?
No I just went through her Spotify playlist and i saw that she had songs like it’s oh so quiet, quiet storm & quiet hearts and I thought it meant that she still thinks about me but I guess she just likes the songs and that’s all
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Default Jan 30, 2020 at 02:24 AM
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It's not stupid. I actually think it's quite common to look for signs of lingering affection if you still like the person. But the best thing, in these instances, to me, is not to draw a conclusion. She listens to those songs, she likes them and that's it - that's as far as I'd go. Otherwise you could spend the whole year obsessing and wondering, and you'd still never know - unless you asked her outright for her thoughts. But there again, her answer may fall short of what you hoped. So, just don't worry @Alexander98. You'll be fine.
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