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Old 12-03-2014, 01:12 PM #51
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I am so sorry to hear about your losses There is no rational way to process loss that occurred in this manner. I too have lost several friends this way.. and first reaction that came to me was anger before I could even grieve. It will take time to heal Be good to yourself.
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I am waiting for it to get better. It doesn't seem to get better, just worse.
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it has been a year this past june i lost my husband to cancer he was my best friend an i just feel lost without him i just feel like im going on like a robot thats been programed to do the daily things going on.
22 years of bliss an now nothing yes i have my memories but thats not hugging me loving me or comforting me im just sad all the time.

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I know what you mean. My husband has only been gone a bit over 2months. We were married 39 years. I'm not sure what I would do if I didn't have my dogs. I have to take care of them. I miss him so much, and it's not getting any better. I'm still crying often, and also sad. We knew how sick he was but it's not something you can prepare for.
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I am waiting for it to get better. It doesn't seem to get better, just worse.
i lost mine 8/12/15..9 mos. ago feels like 9 seconds ago, some days I am ok but most I just push on because after 42 years i know what he wants me to do but i got to want to find JOY,getting closer but it is so hard when you hurt so bad.
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Waiting for nothing expecting nothing no joy, no hope. Feel like I'm drowning. There's no exit to this pain.
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hi everyone,
I been through so many losses in my life its hard to imagine.just recently after the passing of my parents I loss my job last summer,my car 8 months ago,my choir director retired in May and my music director left this past weekend cuz of a new music director . im not ready to deal with the new music director cuz im dealing with the losses of two very important people in my life that made an impact on me over the past 15 years I been in choir. im seeing a therapist about my losses and she is a great help to me . how do I move forward from losing my choir director who retired she has been my confident over the past 15 years I have known her ?
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hi docjohn,
that book sounds familiar to me. I took a class that was titled "Death and Dying" in high school . by the way im spring2014. I had many losses in my life . now im dealing with another loss cuz of my choir director who has just retired in May . im seeing a counselor now to help me get over my losses as well as my anxiety and depression . I was also traumatized by my dad who is now passed away after what he had done to me four years ago after my mom died in 2010 . im also on meds to help me with my anxiety and depression .I too am studying to become a counselor too in the near future.
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Two weeks from today will be the ninth year since the day my eldest son was killed in his car, he was twenty-seven.
I still have very intense emotions about losing him, especially on this day, even nine years later.
I feel very guilty about saying or doing anything about him around this day as my living children do not want any reminders about it. They will celebrate his birthday, but refuse to grieve together on the day we lost him.
Last year I was severely reprimanded for posting on social media. This is something I'd done every year in addition to his birthday. I don't dwell on his death, but I need to keep this day to honor the fact that I miss him terribly, I miss who he would have been, who he would have married, what a great father he would have been, and wonder about the circumstances surrounding his death, as there is no information on what exactly happened to cause or precipitate the crash.
I just need to open up about this since I'm not going to be able to be myself.
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Others can be very harsh in the demands put on others when it comes to politically correct grieving and often hold everyone to some imaginary acceptable protocol and or acceptable vs unacceptable behavior. Huh? Our relationships have unique dynamics that are powerful personal and private. Actions by anyone grieving should be left alone and acknowledged as coping and the business of how is not for anyone else to define or judge. Leave it where it belongs, in the heart where GOD is. Who should play GOD? There is no instruction on proper grief other than what's in your heart. I'd suggest you listen to the source most comforts you and feels right and request your loved ones to listen to their own as well.
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I'm trying to deal/cope with the sudden death of my children's father and my soul-mate...... any help would be great... I'm pretty much alone , no one understand's..
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