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We're hoping to get back down to see her on Saturday, weather allowing. If the weather turns bad I'll never see her again
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Be gentle on yourself The weather is going to do what the weather is going to do. I'm sure your gram wouldn't want to think of you in harms way. I wanted to see mine on Friday but it was an icy mess and my kids sleep schedules radically changed over this last weekend of vacation. Back in November with a gallbladder infection diagnosis things got a bit heightened over everyone feeling like it was time to see her asap. Her being the fighter she is, battled off that infection and has made it through the holidays. If my last moment to see her was my last, I'll be at peace. And if there's more moments to come, I will cherish those.

It's tough to know the final stages are here and that it is a matter of time.

Finding peace in the matter is what matters.
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Finding peace in the matter is what matters.
I don't really understand "finding peace in the matter is what matters", I'm not really following what that means.

We're definately going down to see her tomorrow, weather forecast sounds okay

This thread got moved here as well and I don't understand why so soon when I wanted it to stay where it was for now, I did ask but never heard back

And this post now has 3 paragraphs so am adding this one to make three go away

edit: I'm now imagining grandma and grandad being together when the time comes and Ebony being there as well thinking this way hurts though

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It's tough to know the final stages are here and that it is a matter of time.

Finding peace in the matter is what matters.
As far as meaning, I included the sentence that goes with it.

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I don't really understand "finding peace in the matter is what matters", I'm not really following what that means.

We're definately going down to see her tomorrow, weather forecast sounds okay

This thread got moved here as well and I don't understand why so soon when I wanted it to stay where it was for now, I did ask but never heard back

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That will be good that the weather is holding up for a visit :groughug:

I can appreciate your desire not to have the thread moved from a superstitious viewpoint. I don't know why it was decided to move your thread over.
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As far as meaning, I included the sentence that goes with it.







That will be good that the weather is holding up for a visit :groughug:



I can appreciate your desire not to have the thread moved from a superstitious viewpoint. I don't know why it was decided to move your thread over.


My grandma's stable at the moment but she can't move apart from twitching around and she can't talk now, the staff there are having to move her manually every time they want to move her anywhere, they have to put her in a wheelchair and move her to a chair then have to move her around cause she can't move by herself, she's too weak to do anything now



I'll never see her again



They stole Ebony away and poor sweetpea Ebony only knew getting hurt by scumbags before rescue took her in then 4 years later I had to say goodbye to poor Ebony and the nazis stole her body away and made her alive again and are hurting her

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Thinking of you and your grandma. (((((hugs))))).
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I remember getting news like that almost 2 years ago, but it doesn't feel like it. It feels more recent.

I knew it was the end coming for my mom, but I just didn't know how to deal with it. We were never close, so I'm not sure if this made it more painful or not. It was excruciating no matter what.

The holidays were torture, more than usual.
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How are you and your Grandma doing Whispershadow?
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How are you and your Grandma doing Whispershadow?
One of the family tried phoning me several times but I was out driving so couldn't pick up the call, so idk if there's news, I phoned back but couldn't get through, I'm really freaking out bad again now cause I fear something must of happened for that family member to try phone several times this morning, it won't be a social call "hi how are you" kinda thing I'm fearing the worst and I cannot get through to return the call - mobile signal here is a lump of dirt at the best of times and that's putting it politely

I was going to start a new thread but for some reason it won't accept me starting a new thread, just white screens when I click new thread so I'll offload into here instead, today's not been a good day at all, everything's crashing down around my ears again and there's nothing, nothing at all, that I can do about it

The sooner I accept that I'm a scummy turd the better

My heart really hurts now
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