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Today is dad's birthday. It's been an emotional roller coaster. Even though it's been 6 years since I found him, died by suicide. It doesn't seem to get any easier.
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So sorry you lost your father Trace14. I can only imagine what you've experienced since finding him. You have my empathy. I hope there's someone in your life who can sit with you today and give you a bear-hug.
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I'm sorry about your dad.
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So to make matters worse Father's Day lands on my birthday. We used to spend our birthdays together since his was the 6th and mine the 16th. Just lost a cat to cancer the end of May, my partner and I broke up and my mom is still not speaking to me and I doubt I will even get a card from her for my birthday. Now my other cat is sick going into renal failure. I don't think I can take many more hits.
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I'm so sorry Trace that is a terrible lot to handle. You have my utmost sympathy
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I'm so sorry. It is all hitting at once. I hope things get better soon.
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Sounds like you have almost a clean slate. When that happened to me I woke up one day and realized I could reinvent myself. The past had dropped away and I saw myself in a new light. For me worrying about myself alone felt like I was only half alive. When I started working to help others I found another part of life that made me feel whole. It may be different for everyone but I do not feel as alone except when I focus only on me. When I see how many other people are suffering I realize we are all suffering together. Hugs to you __________________ Super Moderator Community Support Team "Things Take Time" |
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