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Default Jan 27, 2020 at 05:37 AM
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I feel by sharing our grief, putting it out there, knowing that others have experienced loss as well, may help to make us feel connected to life as opposed to feeling alienated by it(?)

Daz, Jay, Marie, Tom and Thane, I hope to see you all in the afterlife, my friends. I love you.
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And my Grandma who took me in as a teen, and used to cook me beautiful roast dinners every night. I love you Gran, so much.
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Thanks Daz, for being there for me all those years. Peace is in your heart now, I know that.
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Default Jan 27, 2020 at 05:44 PM
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mote.of.soul I am sorry for all your losses. It must be rough to remember the good times after they are gone and realize that is the extent of what you can have with them in this life.

Hope you find a path through the sadness to the joy of living this life.

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Default Jan 27, 2020 at 06:08 PM
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Too many now. But I think of my late younger brother more and more often these days...
(I was listening to the Jefferson Airplane doing "Comin' Back To Me" and I let all the names and faces float by...played it twice...and even remember when the song itself was young)
memories, regrets and sweet music
yeah, why not grieve? isn't death the Big One? and there is no closure, just revisiting facets of the past. eventually, it could be like cream and rise to the top.

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Hey, Dennis, I was listening to Etta today...we had fun!

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Thank you dad, for all your help and knowledge in everyday matters from how to fix my car to just being there.
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Thank you Grandma for making the best cookies, for great memories and wonderful life lessons.
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Thank you cousin for sticking up for me when there was no one else to do it and for being you.
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Thank you friend from work, it was awesome to get to know you and wish you’re adul5 children the best. You are very missed.
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Default Feb 01, 2020 at 05:51 AM
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And my Grandma who took me in as a teen, and used to cook me beautiful roast dinners every night. I love you Gran, so much.


gran's cooking is the best, isn't it?

I had a grandmother who would do exactly the same thing

yorkshire pudding was her speciality
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Default Feb 01, 2020 at 05:52 AM
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to my brother dan

I hope you had a good birthday in heaven on thursday. I never knew you for too long- but remember how excited you got when we gathered round the table for chinese takeaway or you'd insist on having baloons all around you like a little cacoon

miss you
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Default Feb 01, 2020 at 05:54 AM
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and to bethany

still down here laughing and doing everything you loved about me

hope you are okay x
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Hey Scotty, miss you more than ever.

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hey roxy my beautiful yorkie puppy

I thought about you today

I hope you're getting all the walkies in the world

and lots of playtime

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Jay, it wasn't your fault, brother. But you know that now. Much Peace & Love.
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To PD, I found myself thinking about you today. Thank you for your friendship and all the thoughts, hopes and dreams we shared. You were a very special person and there are moments in my life when I think about you. I know you told me not to be sad but I am afraid I couldn't not be and I remember you now with a tear but also a smile for the gentle sweet person you were.
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Default Jul 07, 2020 at 11:34 AM
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hey bethany.

how are you?. I was searching for this thread because I wanted to say hi and I hope you are okay up their

guess what?. I really miss you and wish you were down here to talk to me and listen to avenue q with (you know how much I love that soundtrack.)

you may have died years ago, but you are in my thoughts every day- and now I'm always asking myself in tough situations.. what would bethany do?.

I'm always here to talk to you (via this thread)

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Default Jul 12, 2020 at 09:03 AM
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dear dan

today I came across a cd you gave before you passed away

it had the fun lovin criminals on it. do you remember listening to that?. was never my favorite, but the song has grown on me a little

thinking of you today
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Default Jul 12, 2020 at 02:28 PM
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Dear dad, I'm allowing myself to know how you let us down even though you were the best parent we had. When I think of you now, a year later, I find the best you gave is now mine inside. You were less than I believed, but I am more than I thought. So I can let go.
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