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Old 05-21-2020, 03:15 AM   #11
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Thank you, @TunedOut for your very kind words

But I don't kind i'm in the position to forgive myself. I feel like a murder... i stole life from my family and other people without realizing it. There is no relief...
We have all made mistakes. That is human nature. That you did not realize it before makes it even more forgivable--especially if you can make an effort to serve others and find ways to help yourself. I have many, many regrets and most of them I completely forgive but there are a few that haunt me periodically. They haunt me because I cannot take back the consequences of my actions (neither can your parents or ancestors) but if I can work towards doing good everyday then I will not add to my regrets and I will eventually start dwelling more on what is good. Keep trying Gasplessy!
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I'm sorry, dad... I can't believe it happened and in such a way
I've been so lost and broken lately
What a nightmare... every day i wish i could wake up in forgiven world
I pray in my own silent -yet passive-aggressive - way

Sorry. I've been dull and stupid
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Hi Gasplessy. I am sorry for the loss of your dad.

It is not your fault - this article may be of interest. 5 Tips for Dealing with Guilt
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