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Default Dec 11, 2014 at 08:21 AM
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I'm confused.

At least here where I live, if a child has been removed from their parents and are put into the care of someone else, then the biological parents don't get to have a say in things until the government decides to return the children to them. They don't even get to visit outside of the government-decided visitations, which are always supervised.

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Default Dec 11, 2014 at 06:12 PM
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I'm confused.

At least here where I live, if a child has been removed from their parents and are put into the care of someone else, then the biological parents don't get to have a say in things until the government decides to return the children to them. They don't even get to visit outside of the government-decided visitations, which are always supervised.
First of all laws differ in every state.
Her mom willingly went to treatment and was asked if she wanted her daughter to be put under the care of a friend or relative. Social services cleared me as an acceptable household. As I have said many times her parents are divorced. As I have also said many times his friends are charged with hurting her. He will not be facing charges but at the time she was placed with me he was still being investigated. Now he has been cleared because there is no evidence to file charges. He does not want to keep her full time.

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Default Dec 11, 2014 at 06:21 PM
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Are the people who abused her going to jail?
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Are the people who abused her going to jail?
Yes they are. They are either on house arrest or held with no bond. Trials start very soon.
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Default Dec 11, 2014 at 11:29 PM
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Her mom willingly went to treatment and was asked if she wanted her daughter to be put under the care of a friend or relative. Social services cleared me as an acceptable household.
So why not get social services involved in this? It seems crystal clear that a little girl who has been abused should not be modeling.

Is anything going to be done about the father having his hand up her dress?
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Default Dec 12, 2014 at 02:00 AM
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i would strongly recommend looking into child advocacy...messaged you a link...it might take a lot of work...but somebody out there knows how to legally stop her father from forcing her to model...it is clearly not in her best interest....

the system can be so incredibly frustrating and you might run into a lot of brick walls....don't give up...call, email, visit anyone who will listen...

use every resource you have available and do not take no for an answer...if one person says they can't do anything about it, ask them who can.....be persistent and relentless.

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Default Dec 12, 2014 at 02:03 AM
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social worker, therapist, prosecutor.....start with them...ask them for resources....you might have to force the system to do what it should have been doing from the start....

make them hear you!

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