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Default Nov 04, 2018 at 01:10 PM
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I thought I had some money left when I called the bank today they told me I had a certain amount and now they tell me I have a zero balance, I am suppose to get some money in from when my mom passed away but this is a shock to me I thought I had some money, I have to wait about 16 days before I get paid again they already penailized me because I didnt have the money in the bank, I asked my son to help but he doesnt know what to do, I am so upset I am shaking like a leave, I cannot live like this always worrying about something.I guess my addition isnt all that great I am so confused and upset.I could use a hug. please just bear with me.I just cannot seem to catch a break if something bad is going to happen it will happen to me.All I want to do is take a nap and sleep I cant having trouble relaxing,I did mange to finish a afghan I was making,I am just fed up ..Sorry to be a bother
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((((xmascarol)))) You're not a bother. Please keep writing here. I'm so sorry you're struggling. Do you have a job right now? Are you on disability?
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((((xmascarol)))) You're not a bother. Please keep writing here. I'm so sorry you're struggling. Do you have a job right now? Are you on disability?
Hi no I cannot work but I do not get disability but I do get my late husbands on the 21 of this month but who knows how much of a 35 dollar penalities I will have ,already have one,I think something stinks here .It still is scaring me to death.Thanks for responding I always love your posts.
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... I would call or go to my financial institution and have them investigate the loss of funds ... Someone may have hacked into your account, and if that's the case, your financial institution will restore these funds (and penalties) to you ... They'll also make some minor changes to protect your account from them doing it again ...

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carol you're not a bother, you're wonderful I hope it gets sorted for you
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... I would call or go to my financial institution and have them investigate the loss of funds ... Someone may have hacked into your account, and if that's the case, your financial institution will restore these funds (and penalties) to you ... They'll also make some minor changes to protect your account from them doing it again ...

You know what that is the reason why I cannot go onto my bank account online someone sent me a virus and I got a warning someone maybe hacking into my account so for now on I have to do it over the phone. I did have that happened to me once before someone stole over 400 dollars from me I contacted the site they gave me my money back, I am just afraid that maybe I made a mistake in my math but I am always careful.I do get paid in about 14 days but I need money so I can get my anxiety meds inderol too. I asked my son to help but he didnt know what to do.Neither does my daughter. I need some prayers., thanks for your suggestion
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carol you're not a bother, you're wonderful I hope it gets sorted for you
Thank you, I love all of you here, you mean a ,lot to me. Don't know what I would ever do without you. I am just trying to be a good person, you know sometimes when I get angry or very anxious I do tend to spend.It is like a release for me of some kind. Makes me feel better but not that much.
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Sorry about your money problems xmascarol. I hope you can get some help with it.
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I thought I had some money left when I called the bank today they told me I had a certain amount and now they tell me I have a zero balance, I am suppose to get some money in from when my mom passed away but this is a shock to me I thought I had some money, I have to wait about 16 days before I get paid again they already penailized me because I didnt have the money in the bank, I asked my son to help but he doesnt know what to do, I am so upset I am shaking like a leave, I cannot live like this always worrying about something.I guess my addition isnt all that great I am so confused and upset.I could use a hug. please just bear with me.I just cannot seem to catch a break if something bad is going to happen it will happen to me.All I want to do is take a nap and sleep I cant having trouble relaxing,I did mange to finish a afghan I was making,I am just fed up ..Sorry to be a bother
You are in my prayers, honey. Banks can be heartless, penalizing folks for mistakes and taking so much out in fees. I hope this straightens out for you quickly. Money stress is awful.

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Default Nov 05, 2018 at 08:48 AM
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Are you sure for certain that some outside source/person is responsible for this? First of all you need to establish where the money has gone to. The way to do this is by obtaining a statement for the account for which you can indeed confirm whether someone has been siphoning funds. In what manner do you budget for and record your spending?
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Default Nov 05, 2018 at 03:13 PM
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Of course your kids know what to do~loan mom enough $ to cover the account if it is a reasonable amount.

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Default Nov 07, 2018 at 06:36 AM
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Yes, in the meantime while this is being looked into are you able to look after what is necessary?
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Of course your kids know what to do~loan mom enough $ to cover the account if it is a reasonable amount.
Or cover meds and groceries while the bank issue is being worked on.
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