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There's a trust, she took my name off it. My minor daughter is on it and my brother. I told her she's giving money to my ex husband because my daughter is a minor. I also said I want my name back in. I'm really hurt. Her lawyer told her to take me off because I have mental health issues. I don't know if I'll get put back in. I'm really upset that my ex husband will gain from my mother's death and i get screwed again.
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I'm so sorry that happened. Shame on her lawyer.
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Same thing happened to me only with a bit more cruelty. I'm sorry you have to deal with this. It really hurts.
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I'm sorry. Sounds painful. Hopefully your mom will be around a while. When your daughter turns 18, you ex will be "cut out."

I don't have that much to pass on and hopefully my husband and I will be around for a while but I told my daughter I believe in dividing what I have 50/50. I would never cut one of my children out.

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((((Aviza)))) That's a terrible thing to do. Shame on her lawyer for suggesting that. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this
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I also was cut out of my parent's will. The will stated this, and that I knew why. I never figured that one out, unless my mom hated me that much. I have 5 siblings, and none of them were treated like I was. I just look at it as I didn't want anything they had anyway, I have my own house hold. Just know that it isn't you that has the problem, it is your mom, and her lawyer. (((((((BIG HUGS)))))))
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She said if I pay the lawyer fee she'll put me back in. I said I would pay after a fight about it. Basically I conceded.
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She said if I pay the lawyer fee she'll put me back in. I said I would pay after a fight about it. Basically I conceded.
I just let it all go. It hurt very bad to know my mom did this. My siblings didn't do anything to save there property, and the personal things they sold off. The property ended up going to the state bc my siblings wouldn't do anything. They each wanted one of the others to take care of it. They kept calling me to do something, and I finally told them, "I'm not in the will, I can't do a thing". So finally the state got it for back taxes.
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Same thing happened to me only with a bit more cruelty. I'm sorry you have to deal with this. It really hurts.
I am sorry you also had to deal with this. It is a very painful thing for a parent to do.
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