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Old 07-10-2019, 03:20 PM   #1
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Default Online LGBT grouos are hypocritical

I've been on multiple grouos for LGBT+ folk, and in the vast majority they claim to be we,coming of all sexualities and gender expressions, but in reality they're always full of bigots and tribalism.

Many groups in-fight with each other - lesbians versus trans women, aces versus gays, aces versus greys, heteros versus gays, gays versus bi, lgbt versus heteros, etc And some groups get punched by almost everyone - the objectums, fictos, oneiros, mechas, furries and otherkin.

Dont believe the hype - there are no really safe spaces for every sexuality, whatever lies they spout. Pride is a sham, and most 'LGBTQIIA+' spaces are every bit as judgemental as everywhere else.
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I've been on multiple grouos for LGBT+ folk, and in the vast majority they claim to be we,coming of all sexualities and gender expressions, but in reality they're always full of bigots and tribalism.

Many groups in-fight with each other - lesbians versus trans women, aces versus gays, aces versus greys, heteros versus gays, gays versus bi, lgbt versus heteros, etc And some groups get punched by almost everyone - the objectums, fictos, oneiros, mechas, furries and otherkin.

Dont believe the hype - there are no really safe spaces for every sexuality, whatever lies they spout. Pride is a sham, and most 'LGBTQIIA+' spaces are every bit as judgemental as everywhere else.
You can be correct about that. If you google LGBTQ message board, the top listing is a place with over 38,500 members but have less than 30 members with 1,000 postings. Just did the math, that is less than 0.0008% of the membership base with over 1,000 postings. Why join a group like that.

Being a lesbian and less a problem being a atheist -- there is in-fighting. True, the lesbian community and with the LGBT and every year it keeps on adding more letters. The problem with the LGBT community, is the fact that the most vast vocal members of the community has a college education -- and they are all chasing after money and fame. Second, they are running around in the Twitter Universe, making postings, and chasing to get more members with their twitter account. If I was on Twitter, and I was debating another lesbian. She can say she has 20,000 members and I only have 10,000, so I must be wrong.
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I'm sorry you've experienced that crap as well.
So annoying ... I believe/ hope I've found a welcoming place, and within a short time I find I'm invalidated and disowned for no reason ...
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I'm sorry you've experienced that crap as well.
So annoying ... I believe/ hope I've found a welcoming place, and within a short time I find I'm invalidated and disowned for no reason ...
Is there a rational reason to disown someone because they are a adult, and their sex partner is a adult as well. What two people who are adults want to do with each others bodies is their personal right to do so: if it is about sex. It is a waste of my mental skills to fantasy about two adults having sex, than talk or write something negative about it.

For almost a year of my life, I was active on Twitter. I talked about being a lesbian and being a atheist. I did have a few lesbian friends, and we had a passive friendship. I did have really a short friendship with another atheist woman. She was not interested to debate with a fellow female atheist. She was only interested in finding vocal Christians and start trolling them. Even that I ended up have over 11,000 following, when I did make a post, on average only less than 50 people were interested. Since you can only post so many words. Twitter, it became dull, boring, and uninteresting with me. Second, my feed was interested in currant affairs that became breaking news. It became, follow the breaking news, if it follows your ideology, than troll it until it gets out of the news cycle. That is not that interesting, because the posters did not having depth with knowledge on the subject. With over 11,000 following me, I just stopped posting.

What interests me more, is a good nonfiction book.
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I'm sorry you've experienced that crap as well.
So annoying ... I believe/ hope I've found a welcoming place, and within a short time I find I'm invalidated and disowned for no reason ...
Someone here has invalidated you? What do you mean by disowned?
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Someone here has invalidated you? What do you mean by disowned?
No, not here

Here is good

On other places ... A couple of Reddit groups and an asexual forum.
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