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Default Apr 03, 2018 at 05:44 PM
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My dad just had his prostate removed he had cancer but now is cancer free. Just be aware that recovery sucks

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Default Apr 03, 2018 at 06:06 PM
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My dad just had his prostate removed he had cancer but now is cancer free. Just be aware that recovery sucks
Thankyou for sharing Teddy Bear . Iam in nomans land just now . Before op and before even thinking of recovery yet
I know the hazards but just hope for the best .

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Default Apr 05, 2018 at 11:46 PM
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Well had my op yesterday and so far pain has been horrid and all thetubes

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Default Apr 09, 2018 at 11:19 AM
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Hope you have a speedy recovery!
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Hope you have a speedy recovery!
Thanks minow the road ahead should be interesting to say the least .

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Default Apr 29, 2018 at 07:17 PM
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And here it is end of april and 4 hospital admissions later .i am still hooked up to tubes and fighting infection.
Had a sever allergic reation which led to a 3am rush to surgery which was canceled at the last minute.

Besides all that I havent begun to get my head around being free of this demon cancer.
I have been busy trying just to cope with the fight I have inside myself.
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Its amazing all the little things you crave when you cant have them.

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Default May 01, 2018 at 09:01 AM
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daggy, I hope this note finds you recovering in more comfort.
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daggy, I hope this note finds you recovering in more comfort.
Unfortunately minnow everytime it looks like im winning I get something else to slow me down.
Hope this week finds a better solution.

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Default Dec 17, 2018 at 08:13 AM
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So here it is December 2018. Prostate went. Replaced with a good dose of ED with a side of incontinence just a little.
And PSA of 0 trying to find friends that sort of getting where I'm coming from is useless. Lost 2 to misunderstandings.
With all that and the mental stuff, you go through it is so hard a time for a man.
I hope I make it maybe.
Thanks for the advice along the way .

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Default Jan 15, 2019 at 02:15 AM
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Middle of Jan 2019 and have resigned to waiting.
Waiting for something good to happen
Waiting for a decent blood supply to come back.
Waiting for my imagination to turn off.
Waiting for the pain of not being able to have sex.
Just waiting

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Default Jan 21, 2019 at 12:42 AM
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Ok fully fighting impotence now is there any place one can go to get some cyber release?
Coming up to 12 months after op and psychologically losing the fight

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Default Feb 06, 2019 at 12:40 PM
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"Waiting for my imagination to turn off.
Waiting for the pain of not being able to have sex.
Just waiting"

I'm a 26-year-old virgin. The pain of not having sex isn't too bad for me. there's a lot in life, outside of sex.
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Default Feb 07, 2019 at 06:53 PM
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Ok fully fighting impotence now is there any place one can go to get some cyber release?
Coming up to 12 months after op and psychologically losing the fight
If oh if all these medicines and injections worked. .just once.
Another urologist at the end of Feb.
My marriage is hanging by a thread even though I am stumbling from one thing to the other. 8 yrs after the first signs.
I don't know how many years this has to go on for but I can see why they put taking it out until a man is older.
Trouble is mine had to come out.
36 yrs of sex life and 10 lovers later is all I got.

Fighting the good fight i hope

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Default Feb 07, 2019 at 11:37 PM
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I am glad I wrote all those posts before and after. I made some mistakes along the way and probably still am going to.
Plus I found who to trust and who doesn't care.
Only have the mental fight to instant and whip.

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Default Feb 20, 2019 at 10:33 PM
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2019 feb
Prostate gone
Cancer spread
Another 3 months and then the fight begins
I hope i hold out mentally at least.
8 years of waiting and it came down to this

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Default Feb 20, 2019 at 10:46 PM
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just wanted to get anyones stories or tips for going through the stages of prostate cancer (hope that sounded right)
Unfortunatly I have just been diagnosed with it and would like to hear what I have coming up for me soon . Not just the clinical terms but words from the heart of those of us walking the same road
Dad went thru 60 sessions last year. Now cancer free. He is 81.
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Dad went thru 60 sessions last year. Now cancer free. He is 81.
I do not think i will see 81 but only the good go young . Its the unknown that will get me i think

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2019 feb
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Another 3 months and then the fight begins
I hope i hold out mentally at least.
8 years of waiting and it came down to this
March

I can see what i does and the multi layers of strength it is going to take.
I truly do not have my heart in this..

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Default Mar 06, 2019 at 09:27 PM
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March 2019

So here I was thinking "oh good it's over"

WRONG

The world pees on me once again

Disappointment
is not a big enough word

seeing Things in black and white, on paper

Later i have to digest the what and where to go from here.

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Default Apr 01, 2019 at 07:51 PM
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April 2 2019

So it is lucky that I see the best urologist in the state to check on me in a few months to see if one thing isn't complicating the other.
Prostate went and so did cancer.
Now just have to see how much of infection I have gotten back tomorrow.

So it's lucky I see a urologist

But I could do without the incontinence that has come back and I wish my ED would go away.

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