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Old 10-26-2019, 04:21 PM   #11
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It sucks and i cannot overcome it,too late now.
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Old 10-28-2019, 02:31 PM   #12
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Girls will laugh out loud or will be shocked at first,something gone wrong as first impression or he has a main issue.Not just a low self esteem or shyness but something more serious.
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Old 11-04-2019, 10:46 PM   #13
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I'm sorry I'm of no help, but I feel the same way right now honestly. I've never really had intimacy with a woman and it's hard. So whatever. I mean, nothing's gonna happen that's that great with a woman anyway. Honestly I feel like I'm over sex anyway. That's just how I feel right now.
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All have to do with the fear of the uknown situation,the unexpected and inexperience,i personally don't know how to attract a girl,how to express my emotions or show that i am interesting,i fear the rejection or will say something will sound too stupid.There is an easy way,to use social media such as facebook with a fake profile firstly,post some generic photos of you and try to make some friends list of known and uknown people,start talking,ask slowly for a dating maybe.A second thought,ok,the wrong way but still result it counts,go find a callgirl,cheap escort teen and make just a start,lose virginity firstly,then try level up with gaining som basic sex experience,the more you do the more you want again,this will give you self confidence.

It's a basic plan into my mind but still i'm far away to start with it,seems to be a basic solution to escape with emptyness,loneliness and lack of sex life.
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I feel ashamed and stamped to be virgin,i lost so much time with insecurities.
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I kind of felt the same way prior to losing my virginity but you'll be surprised how easy sex really is to do. You basically just go for it - there's no need for too much else, at first. That will come with time. And besides a lot of ladies just want the straight up sex anyway. Do you understand what I mean? Just let your sexual feelings guide your actions and set the self analysis aside.

That's really all I have to offer here. I got sick of being a virgin so downed some beers and went to the prostitutes at age 24. They really don't care who you are or how old you are. Nice people, though. I left feeling really quite happy within myself.

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Do you believe is antisocial not to have facebook/instagram account,i mean,why everybody amazed negative and wondering when i'm saying then i've deleted my accounts so far?

I'm ashamed to ask a girl for a date or even a phone number,i don't wanna to know the current situation,it's a self defence from my side.
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26, not a virgin. Lost it at 17. All I can say Is that it changed absolutely nothing for the better. It complicated my entire life, how I view women and relationships and I wish I had the innocent essence I used to have. Maybe, I'd have less problems.. I don't think you should be ashamed of yourself. I used to think having sex is what would make me a man or some kind of badge of honor or rites of passage bullcrap. I was sadly mistaken. Maybe, you should just focus on your work and if a woman cares about you for who you are she'll come around and it will all work out.
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Old 11-24-2019, 05:16 PM   #19
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I feel what you're going through. I'm 37, no sex, barest amount of intimacy. And now, the word "incel" is going to make it worse to find someone interested in me who won't run away the second I'm found out.

As for dating, I am LITERALLY incapable of "picking up non-verbal cues." I'm sorry, I'm that stupid but I have to be told these things.

I don't want people to say sex isn't a big deal. If it isn't, why are there so many jokes about people who haven't done it yet.

I'm sorry, I wish I could give some sage advice to you OP. All I can do is say I know what you're going through and hope it gets better for you.
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I feel what you're going through. I'm 37, no sex, barest amount of intimacy. And now, the word "incel" is going to make it worse to find someone interested in me who won't run away the second I'm found out.


As for dating, I am LITERALLY incapable of "picking up non-verbal cues." I'm sorry, I'm that stupid but I have to be told these things.


I don't want people to say sex isn't a big deal. If it isn't, why are there so many jokes about people who haven't done it yet.


I'm sorry, I wish I could give some sage advice to you OP. All I can do is say I know what you're going through and hope it gets better for you.
It is a common issue for most guys. We are clueless when deal with dating.

It is best to go MGTOW. Women nowadays are hostile. They can accuse you of rape if they feel unsatisfied with the date
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