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My brother who has Bi-polar has become someone I no longer know. My mother is 89 and I've been taking care of her for many years while trying to work a hectic job. My brother used to tell me what a great job I'm doing and even help out some. In the past 2 years he has become everything I have read about regarding narcissistic disorder. We used to be close and I have leant him a lot of money over the years. He now comes over and criticizes everything I do. Tells me how to do things and wants money from my mother. My heart is broken and I can't talk to him without an argument. Please help!
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Hi, lost and exhausted, and welcome to Psych Central! I'm sorry your brother is being this way. He's probably thinking she's coming to the end of her life and he wants "his share and more," even though you have been the caregiver. You won't be able to keep him from running his mouth, but you can look after yourself and your mother. Does anyone have power of attorney (durable and medical)? If not, then it needs to be done ASAP.
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Welcome to PC sorry that dealing with family is sometimes hard
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