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I get upset most of the time and tell that person that they are no longer welcome to associate with me if that's the way they are going to be

sometimes I get defensive and respond with a phrase like,

oh, and what would you know about a certain diagnoses

or I'll just tell them that's who I am and they are going to have to deal with it
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I honestly dont have time to give people educations.

especially when they turn to you at the end and judge
I sometimes try to educate people.

But when they turn on me at the end and judge

it’s “goodbye vienna” - I “stole” that phrase from you

As someone wisely said in another of my posts re those who enjoy judging..

“Judge me when you’re perfect” ....

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I honestly dont have time to give people educations.

especially when they turn to you at the end and judge
Well then people are just going to continue seeing you in a negative light and continue judging you.
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Unfortunately I tend often to retreat. Social anxiety isn't my Dx but I feel that many MH issues come with a degree of that. Folks have tried to help but the pull to back away from life is strong. I don't deal with much...I just ride the wave. Not a good thing.

I encourage everyone to not let things slide...find some coping mechanisms. Ask teachers, doctors, clergy, trusted friends, loved ones...they're all good to speak to. If nothing else they can point you in appropriate directions. I'd recommend PC but y'all have taken a step already!
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