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Default Oct 31, 2019 at 08:05 PM
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Why can't I just be ''perfect'' like I ''should''
I always fail to be perfect

''too many'' issues..

''too broken''

(that's what they tell me irl…)

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You are perfect as you are, and no one is perfect. (((safe hugs)))

I do not like when people hurt the Fuzzybear. They are mean. They deserve growls.
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Default Oct 31, 2019 at 08:56 PM
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You are perfect as you are, and no one is perfect. (((safe hugs)))

I do not like when people hurt the Fuzzybear. They are mean. They deserve growls.
Thank you Lilly ((( safe hugs )))

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Default Nov 01, 2019 at 03:37 AM
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Everyone loves Fuzzy! To us, you are perfect.

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Default Nov 01, 2019 at 03:44 AM
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Everyone loves Fuzzy! To us, you are perfect.
Ditto! Indeed!
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Default Nov 01, 2019 at 04:22 AM
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Nothing is perfect. Be YOU always

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Heart Nov 01, 2019 at 07:57 AM
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And if anyone seems "perfect", they're probably covering up something.
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Default Nov 04, 2019 at 03:50 AM
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Why would YOU want to be perfect? That would mean no need for improvements, no need to learn & no adventure in life. Most of the BEST parts in my life are because I am not perfect....just me.

The funny things in my life happen because I am NOT perfect so a lot of humor would be missing too. I really love not being perfect....something to embrace, not be upset because you aren't.

Why do you put so much weight on what other people think rather than embracing who you really are.....the loveable, caring fuzzybear we know here: heart:

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Default Nov 04, 2019 at 09:03 AM
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You are perfect to me, and as long as you like yourself, that should be enough! WE ALL LOVE YOU HERE!
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Default Dec 24, 2019 at 06:50 PM
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Hope you're doing better.
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Default Jan 17, 2020 at 12:13 AM
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Yeah, Fuzzy...that, "having to be 'perfect'", thinking will always get you in trouble. Because no one, and nothing, is perfect.

Do your best. That's all anyone can do.

I have to re-learn this one myself, all the time. And it's always a relief when I realize it's ok to be less-than.

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Default Jan 17, 2020 at 08:46 AM
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You are perfect in every way, dear Fuzzy.
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Default Jan 20, 2020 at 09:17 PM
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I'm sorry you're so surrounded by toxicity in your life. You don't deserve that at all. You're awesome just as you are, and you see how much love and support you get from this community. And you never fail to give love and support to others. Not attaining the unattainable is not failure. And everybody is broken who has actually experienced the realities of life. But love heals, and if you need hugs, just ask for them here on PC! You'll get no shortage of them, Fuzzy.
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Default Jan 21, 2020 at 10:50 AM
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You are perfect as you are Fuzzybear.

I am not sure that we need to be perfect. However my snake expects me to be so....

I recently saw a quote about being good enough, I must remember to remind my snake this....

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Default Jan 21, 2020 at 02:13 PM
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The problem with "perfect" is that it means something different to each individual so in that alone it's something that one can really never actually be.
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