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Dec 09, 2019 at 02:37 PM
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so i have this friend i met on the internet and we became reallly really close.
the thing is a mixer of tragic and traumatic event and a not so easy life in general. created a lot of problem last month she tried to commid suicide at least twice. and she needs proffesional help. the problem she refuses to accept any help . she tried to go to therapist once. and gave up after two apointments. i would have the call the hotline at this point if i could but i the only information i have about her is her private name city she leaves at. a picture she sent me. and the convesations we had on chat? what can i do to help her? Last edited by Guiness187055; Dec 09, 2019 at 10:11 PM.. |
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Dec 10, 2019 at 02:08 PM
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There’s not much you can do. Talk to her / email her , how ever you communicate and let her know she’s not alone and ask her how you can help...
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Dec 10, 2019 at 03:18 PM
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Yes, unfortunately she's the one who needs to get help and there isn't a lot that you can do. Be near her and support her. Remind her that you'll ALWAYS be there for her. Other than that, though, it's up to her!
 Be kind to yourself and to her as well of course. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Starkfull, your Family, your Friends, Your Friend and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking BOTH OF YOU VERY MUCH NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!      
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Dec 10, 2019 at 08:15 PM
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Hello Starkfull: I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central.
 As others have already written, under the circumstances, I don't know as there is much you can do. However here are links to 5 articles, from Psych Central's archives, that may be helpful to you in at least better understanding the situation: Denial is a Powerful Impediment to Treatment Helping Someone With Suicidal Thoughts: Reach Out to a Friend Today 10 Questions and Answers to Help Prevent Suicide Frequently Asked Questions About Suicide How to Survive Suicidal Thoughts I hope you find PC to be of benefit. 
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Dec 14, 2019 at 01:14 PM
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thanks for trying to help.
im trying to get her to look for help but she keep refusing i dont know if its denial cuse she seems to be someowhat aware at the situations but she is saying "she got used to it" i just dont know how to take it sometime. i mean i know that if anything happen it wouldnt be my fault but she is still dear to me. and i hate to loose her |
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