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Greetings Everyone Need some help an suggestion I got married in 2015 everything was great up till now my wife treats me like crap now labels me her ex which abused her am nothing of the sort an she continues to make bad choices she do stuff with not asking me what i feel am so stressed out help?
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Hello virginislands: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central.

Perhaps other PC members will have some thoughts they will want to share. From my perspective, though, I think you may need to provide some additional detail with regard to what is occurring for someone to be able to be of help.

In the meantime however here are links to 4 articles, from Psych Central's archives, that talk about how to deal with difficult (or even toxic) family members as well as others plus links to 2 articles on the subject of personal boundaries:

How to Deal with Difficult Family Members

Dealing With Unhealthy Family & Friend Relationships: A Brief How-To

How to Deal with Critical People

What's a Toxic Person & How Do You Deal With One?

An Introduction To Boundaries and Why We Need Them | The Psychology of Self

https://psychcentral.com/lib/10-way-...er-boundaries/

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.

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Welcome @virginislands:
When you say she "treats you like crap" what do you mean? Treating someone like crap can have different meanings. For some it could be abuse, verbal or physical. For others it could be demeaning behavior, ignoring, sabatoging, throwing things, ruining someone's possessions,. Being mean, cutting you off...it might help if you could expound on what treating you like crap means to you.

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Greetings Everyone Need some help an suggestion I got married in 2015 everything was great up till now my wife treats me like crap now labels me her ex which abused her am nothing of the sort an she continues to make bad choices she do stuff with not asking me what i feel am so stressed out help?

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