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Default Jan 07, 2020 at 03:22 AM
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This girlfriend must eat out everyday which means seven days a week. She loves to eat then she cries for an hour because she's over weight. Her dead husband took her out to eat everyday for 14 years she told me this. He spoiled her badly. She eats like a kid and she's 67 years old. She has bad Diabetes and it's out of control her doctor has said. What makes her do this?
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Default Jan 07, 2020 at 04:29 AM
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Why anyone would want to eat out everyday amazes me.

Sounds like she was spoiled, must have had the money to do so. Is she capable of cooking a meal ? Maybe she never learned?

Honestly she could probably be helped by seeing a Therapist but not everyone would want to change. As for her poor health ? You can lead a horse to water blah blah blah.

Maybe she will continue to expect this or someone will say no?

Maybe seeing if she would be interested in going to cooking classes could help...

Even if I had the money to eat out daily I wouldn’t lol I enjoy meals I make myself. I’d go out a couple times a month.

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