Monster Mommy finally went too far - Page 3 - Forums at Psych Central



advertisement
Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 08-09-2018, 11:14 AM #21
Werewoman's Avatar
Werewoman Werewoman is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Betelgeuse
Posts: 1,018
Werewoman Werewoman is offline
Poohbah
Werewoman's Avatar
Werewoman Is a bit, well...wered.
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Betelgeuse
Posts: 1,018

3 yr Member
620 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Re: Monster Mommy finally went too far

Well, well, well...I got a response. I didn't read it, and I won't. I was VERY serious when I said no more letters, etc. And does she disrespect my wishes yet again? Of course. It's what she does.

I wonder how long it will take her to notice I never read it. Hmmmm.
__________________
You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams

Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd

'Cause my monsters are real, and they're trained how to kill
And there's no coming back and they just laugh at how I feel
And my monsters can fly, and they never say die
And there's no going back, if I get trapped I'll never heal
Yeah, my monsters are real. ~ Shinedown


CHECK OUT MY minds.com channel! https://www.minds.com/WEREWOMAN
Werewoman is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Hugs from:
"Thanks for this!" says:

advertisement
Old 08-15-2018, 02:42 PM #22
Werewoman's Avatar
Werewoman Werewoman is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Betelgeuse
Posts: 1,018
Werewoman Werewoman is offline
Poohbah
Werewoman's Avatar
Werewoman Is a bit, well...wered.
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Betelgeuse
Posts: 1,018

3 yr Member
620 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Re: Monster Mommy finally went too far

After a lot of thought, I got angrier and angrier that they wrote back. After I explicitly told them not to....so even though I threw their letter in the garbage without reading it, i replied with this:

THIS IS NOT A GAME!

I specifically stated that you not contact me in any way, and whatís the first thing you do? Write a letter. It went into the garbage, as will any subsequent communications.

THIS IS MY LIFE AND I DONíT NEED OR WANT YOU IN IT!

For the last time,


LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!

If you donít, I will make you.
__________________
You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams

Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd

'Cause my monsters are real, and they're trained how to kill
And there's no coming back and they just laugh at how I feel
And my monsters can fly, and they never say die
And there's no going back, if I get trapped I'll never heal
Yeah, my monsters are real. ~ Shinedown


CHECK OUT MY minds.com channel! https://www.minds.com/WEREWOMAN
Werewoman is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Hugs from:
"Thanks for this!" says:
Old 08-23-2018, 11:18 AM #23
Werewoman's Avatar
Werewoman Werewoman is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Betelgeuse
Posts: 1,018
Werewoman Werewoman is offline
Poohbah
Werewoman's Avatar
Werewoman Is a bit, well...wered.
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Betelgeuse
Posts: 1,018

3 yr Member
620 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Re: Monster Mommy finally went too far

I woke up and realized...she's never going to leave me alone, so I'm filing a petition for a protective order. Enough is enough.
__________________
You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams

Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd

'Cause my monsters are real, and they're trained how to kill
And there's no coming back and they just laugh at how I feel
And my monsters can fly, and they never say die
And there's no going back, if I get trapped I'll never heal
Yeah, my monsters are real. ~ Shinedown


CHECK OUT MY minds.com channel! https://www.minds.com/WEREWOMAN
Werewoman is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Hugs from:
"Thanks for this!" says:
Old 11-12-2018, 08:53 AM #24
Werewoman's Avatar
Werewoman Werewoman is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Betelgeuse
Posts: 1,018
Werewoman Werewoman is offline
Poohbah
Werewoman's Avatar
Werewoman Is a bit, well...wered.
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Betelgeuse
Posts: 1,018

3 yr Member
620 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Re: Monster Mommy finally went too far

And just when things can't get any more complicated, my nephew, Tommy, tried to kill himself by jumping out of a moving car. I have not yet gone to Ft. Worth to see him yet because he's still unconscious. He'll probably survive, but we don't know if or when he'll wake up.
Eventually I will go and I'm sure my mother will be there. I have decided to make it clear that if she doesn't want me to enforce a protective order, don't be at the hospital when I get there. Period. I'm not playing games.
__________________
You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams

Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd

'Cause my monsters are real, and they're trained how to kill
And there's no coming back and they just laugh at how I feel
And my monsters can fly, and they never say die
And there's no going back, if I get trapped I'll never heal
Yeah, my monsters are real. ~ Shinedown


CHECK OUT MY minds.com channel! https://www.minds.com/WEREWOMAN
Werewoman is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Hugs from:
"Thanks for this!" says:
Old 11-28-2018, 11:40 AM #25
Buffy01 Buffy01 is online now
Magnate
 
Member Since: Oct 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 2,436
Buffy01 Buffy01 is online now
Magnate
Buffy01 has no updates.
 
Member Since: Oct 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 2,436 (SuperPoster!)

1 yr Member
3,580 hugs
given
Default Re: Monster Mommy finally went too far

Quote:
Originally Posted by Werewoman View Post
So a few months back, I was doing research searching out my ex-stepfather molesters whereabouts. I've been tracking him for years.

Now imagine my surprise when during my last stalking session I found that his address had changed - - to my mother's address. She's back with him, the man who molested me as a teenager.

I was speechless. It's not like she doesn't know.

I have written letter after letter, only to reject it and start over again. I want to make it very clear that I will not ever see nor speak to my mother again. She doesn't love me and she doesn't respect me, obviously. I won't be attending her funeral. I want nothing more to do with her.

I you were to write such a letter, what would you say? I know one thing, she didn't just burn the bridge, she stood by laughing as it fell into the water below.
You could write the letter ou but don't even send it. We're the police ever involved in these crimes? Let people around know about her ex.
Buffy01 is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Hugs from:
"Thanks for this!" says:
Old 11-28-2018, 11:45 AM #26
Buffy01 Buffy01 is online now
Magnate
 
Member Since: Oct 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 2,436
Buffy01 Buffy01 is online now
Magnate
Buffy01 has no updates.
 
Member Since: Oct 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 2,436 (SuperPoster!)

1 yr Member
3,580 hugs
given
Default Re: Monster Mommy finally went too far

Quote:
Originally Posted by Out There View Post
Maybe you could write the letter , bless it and then burn it ? It's something I've done with my T. It's so painful I know , we don't get closure from these people sadly no matter how we want it. What's going to make you feel better is what's important. Hugs if wanted.
I agree! I write to myself all the time! Just to explain how I was effect by their actions. Sometimes it help me. Even though I know that they will never react the way that I want and they will meet read the letter. Sometimes it the only closures that I can get even if I am the one who is apologized to myself for the wrong they done to me
Buffy01 is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Hugs from:
"Thanks for this!" says:
Old 11-28-2018, 11:47 AM #27
Buffy01 Buffy01 is online now
Magnate
 
Member Since: Oct 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 2,436
Buffy01 Buffy01 is online now
Magnate
Buffy01 has no updates.
 
Member Since: Oct 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 2,436 (SuperPoster!)

1 yr Member
3,580 hugs
given
Default Re: Monster Mommy finally went too far

Quote:
Originally Posted by Open Eyes View Post
Werewoman, clearly your mother is just too STUPID to have the capacity to be receptive to anything you could, or even I could write to her if I myself tried to make the effort. Honestly, there are human beings in this world that are just plain STUPID, the kind of STUPID that just can't be fixed.
I completely agree with you!
Buffy01 is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Hugs from:
"Thanks for this!" says:
Old 11-28-2018, 11:49 AM #28
Buffy01 Buffy01 is online now
Magnate
 
Member Since: Oct 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 2,436
Buffy01 Buffy01 is online now
Magnate
Buffy01 has no updates.
 
Member Since: Oct 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 2,436 (SuperPoster!)

1 yr Member
3,580 hugs
given
Default Re: Monster Mommy finally went too far

Quote:
Originally Posted by Werewoman View Post
Interesting choice of words. At one point in my letter to them - I'm writing it to both of them - I point out the abject stupidity of people who hurt kids because the day will come when the child is no longer the vulnerable one, but the abuser.

As a survivor, I won't take advantage of their stupidity, but I bet there are people who do.
I completely agree with you.
Buffy01 is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Hugs from:
"Thanks for this!" says:
Old 11-28-2018, 11:51 AM #29
Buffy01 Buffy01 is online now
Magnate
 
Member Since: Oct 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 2,436
Buffy01 Buffy01 is online now
Magnate
Buffy01 has no updates.
 
Member Since: Oct 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 2,436 (SuperPoster!)

1 yr Member
3,580 hugs
given
Default Re: Monster Mommy finally went too far

Quote:
Originally Posted by Open Eyes View Post
Writing a letter is good for "you" Werewoman, it's a way for you to write down how another person's behavior hurt "you". The one who needs the healing is "you" and often the people that hurt us in some way simply are unable to be receptive to "our" hurts otherwise they would have never have hurt or betrayed us to begin with.

I could NEVER ignore it if someone hurt my daughter in the manor you have shared, and I certainly could NEVER choose this man over my daughter like your mother has. I am very sorry you have this kind of mother, you certainly did nothing to deserve that and I can't blame you for being angry. Given what your mother did, I don't think she is capable of caring no matter what is said to her.

((Caring Hugs)))
OE
I completely agree with you!. Some people just won't leave the abuser. It all about them
Buffy01 is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Hugs from:
"Thanks for this!" says:
Old 11-28-2018, 11:52 AM #30
Buffy01 Buffy01 is online now
Magnate
 
Member Since: Oct 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 2,436
Buffy01 Buffy01 is online now
Magnate
Buffy01 has no updates.
 
Member Since: Oct 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 2,436 (SuperPoster!)

1 yr Member
3,580 hugs
given
Default Re: Monster Mommy finally went too far

Quote:
Originally Posted by BLUEDOVE View Post
I just keep repeating,"don't exist,don't exist",any time they are in
my head.
That great advice!I wish that I had thought about that myself!
Buffy01 is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Hugs from:
"Thanks for this!" says:
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off



All times are GMT -5. The time now is 11:55 PM.

Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2019, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.



 

advertisement

Psych Central Forums

Psych Central is the leading mental health website, overseen by mental health professionals since 1995.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider. .

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.
Please read the full disclaimer.