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Old 01-30-2020, 11:29 PM   #11
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I'm in the exact same boat. 13 years together. I'm totally opposite of who i was.
Iím sorry it is tough
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Old 01-30-2020, 11:33 PM   #12
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It has been well-documented from very good studies that the number one complaint of children of divorce is when one parent trashes the other parent to the child. So, you might be surprised by what is actually going on inside your child. Just a thought. It made my 5 year-old so angry that he drew pictures of his mother trashing me and brought them to me. Cartoons. He was 5. Just sayin'.
Yes I know my son has anger outbursts. And times he just cries and cries. He has been through a lot. And almost every time his dad Does actually get him and returns him my son hates me all of a sudden. He calls me a liar etc. I have no idea what heís talking about. Then he tells me his dad says this and that. Itís not fair to my son. He just needs to be a kid. Itís not good to bash the other parent or step parent etc because that will always be their parent they canít change that. And they donít decide who their parent dates either.
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Iím really not doing well. I am a survivor of domestic violence with my ex and I have ptsd. Severe ptsd. My ex was more emotionally financially abusive not too much physical but he put me through so much. I feel like nobody can relate to me. I feel so alone. We have a son together and itís really hard having to keep in contact with him bc he is always trying to ruin my life and he gets on fb and says Iím the one that caused him all these problems and I am the one with issues. Everything my ex says is lies. He barely even picks up my son when he is supposed to. And he acts like he is the perfect father he hasnít paid child support in a year. He doesnít want to help. He did that when we were married. And he has his new supply thinking Iím the probelem and that he is a good dad blah blah. It hurts my feelings that I see that stuff on fb. I blocked them so I didnít have to see it. But my friends send me things if he goes on a rant on fb. I feel so alone. And I hate that he never gets in trouble for what he does. And how much he hurt my son and I. Anyway.
I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. You didn't deserve this.
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